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The conditional was doing most of the work. Je voudrais un cafe was the polite ordering; je veux un cafe was what a child or a rude tourist said. The s'il vous plait at the end of either is structurally optional but socially mandatory in shops, and skipping it confirmed the rude-tourist read. The lesson was that French has two layers of politeness in parallel: the verb form (conditional vs indicative) and the tag (s'il vous plait), and you need both functioning in service contexts.\n\nThe position I want to defend across the how-to-say cluster is that politeness vocabulary is the most culturally loaded vocabulary in any language, and the please vocabulary is where the tu \u002F vous decision becomes load-bearing. S'il te plait with a stranger is the equivalent of using a first name with someone you have just met in formal British English - not wrong exactly, but a misjudgement of the register that the other person will register. The English speaker's instinct to default to s'il te plait because tu sounds friendlier is exactly the wrong move. Defaulting to s'il vous plait with everyone you have just met, and letting the shift to tu come as an explicit invitation, is the right calibration.\n\nThe hill I will land on is that je vous en prie is the single highest-leverage move in French politeness that English speakers consistently underuse. It functions as please, as you-are-welcome, as please-go-ahead, and using it correctly in a hotel, a restaurant or a polite social context is the move that distinguishes the foreign visitor who has done the reading from the one who has not. Pair je voudrais for ordering, s'il vous plait at the end of requests, and je vous en prie in response to thanks, and you have the working politeness register that gets you treated like a respected adult in any French-speaking context.\n",{"type":41,"value":42,"toc":892},"minimark",[43,48,61,66,72,78,81,97,100,103,117,121,127,147,150,154,157,169,180,184,190,195,215,229,233,243,247,250,359,362,365,385,388,392,395,415,420,424,427,431,434,466,477,481,494,498,508,512,518,555,565,569,573,593,597,611,615,629,633,647,651,671,675,679,697,701,716,720,734,738,745,749,808,812,815,847,851],[44,45,47],"h1",{"id":46},"how-to-say-please-in-french","How to Say Please in French",[49,50,51,52,56,57,60],"p",{},"The answer is ",[53,54,55],"strong",{},"s'il vous plaît"," (formal) or ",[53,58,59],{},"s'il te plaît"," (informal) - \"please\" (literally \"if it pleases you\"). French politeness is more rigorously observed than English politeness in some specific contexts: shop interactions, requests to strangers, and the formal vous register all expect \"please\" as part of the polite formula. This article covers the basic phrase, the formal\u002Finformal distinction, the conditional polite request form, the cultural register, and the regional variations.",[62,63,65],"h2",{"id":64},"the-basic-phrase","The basic phrase",[49,67,68,71],{},[53,69,70],{},"S'il vous plaît"," (formal) - \"please\" (literally \"if it pleases you\" with the formal vous).",[49,73,74,77],{},[53,75,76],{},"S'il te plaît"," (informal) - \"please\" (literally \"if it pleases you\" with the informal tu).",[49,79,80],{},"Pronunciation:",[82,83,84,91],"ul",{},[85,86,87,90],"li",{},[53,88,89],{},"S'il vous plait",": seel voo PLEH",[85,92,93,96],{},[53,94,95],{},"S'il te plait",": seel tuh PLEH",[49,98,99],{},"The final 't' in \"plait\" is silent in modern French. The two phrases are pronounced quickly in spoken French, often becoming \"s'voo pleh\" or \"s'tuh pleh\" in fast speech.",[49,101,102],{},"Common abbreviations in writing:",[82,104,105,111],{},[85,106,107,110],{},[53,108,109],{},"SVP"," - s'il vous plait (formal abbreviation, widely used in writing).",[85,112,113,116],{},[53,114,115],{},"STP"," - s'il te plait (informal abbreviation, used in text messages and casual writing).",[62,118,120],{"id":119},"position-in-the-sentence","Position in the sentence",[49,122,123,126],{},[53,124,125],{},"S'il vous plaît \u002F S'il te plaît"," is positionally flexible:",[82,128,129,135,141],{},[85,130,131,134],{},[53,132,133],{},"End"," (most common): \"Pourriez-vous m'aider, s'il vous plait?\" (Could you help me, please?)",[85,136,137,140],{},[53,138,139],{},"Beginning",": \"S'il vous plait, pourriez-vous m'aider?\" (Please, could you help me?)",[85,142,143,146],{},[53,144,145],{},"As standalone",": \"S'il vous plait!\" (Excuse me! \u002F Please!) - to get attention.",[49,148,149],{},"The standalone use of \"s'il vous plait\" to get a server's attention is universal in French restaurants and shops.",[62,151,153],{"id":152},"the-formal-informal-distinction","The formal-informal distinction",[49,155,156],{},"The formal-informal distinction at \"please\" matters more in French than in English:",[82,158,159,164],{},[85,160,161,163],{},[53,162,89],{}," with strangers, in any business context, in shops and restaurants, with anyone older than you whom you have just met.",[85,165,166,168],{},[53,167,95],{}," with friends, family, children, and contexts where you have already established the informal tu.",[49,170,171,172,175,176,179],{},"The mistake English speakers make: defaulting to ",[53,173,174],{},"s'il te plait"," for everyone. This reads as inappropriately casual with strangers and in service contexts. ",[53,177,178],{},"When in doubt, use s'il vous plaît",".",[62,181,183],{"id":182},"the-polite-request-verb-forms","The polite-request verb forms",[49,185,186,187,189],{},"French has several verb forms that carry politeness alongside or instead of ",[53,188,55],{},":",[191,192,194],"h3",{"id":193},"the-conditional","The conditional",[82,196,197,203,209],{},[85,198,199,202],{},[53,200,201],{},"Pourriez-vous..."," (Could you...) - \"Pourriez-vous m'aider?\" (Could you help me?)",[85,204,205,208],{},[53,206,207],{},"Je voudrais..."," (I would like...) - \"Je voudrais un cafe.\" (I would like a coffee.)",[85,210,211,214],{},[53,212,213],{},"Auriez-vous..."," (Would you have...) - \"Auriez-vous l'heure?\" (Would you have the time?)",[49,216,217,218,220,221,224,225,228],{},"The conditional carries politeness inherently. ",[53,219,207],{}," is dramatically more polite than ",[53,222,223],{},"je veux..."," (\"I want\") for ordering at a restaurant; English speakers who use ",[53,226,227],{},"je veux"," sound demanding.",[191,230,232],{"id":231},"the-formal-vous","The formal vous",[49,234,235,236,239,240,242],{},"Using ",[53,237,238],{},"vous"," signals respect and politeness. A request in the ",[53,241,238],{}," form is already polite at the verb level.",[62,244,246],{"id":245},"variations-of-please-beyond-sil-vous-plait","Variations of please beyond s'il vous plait",[49,248,249],{},"French has several phrases that function as politeness intensifiers:",[251,252,253,269],"table",{},[254,255,256],"thead",{},[257,258,259,263,266],"tr",{},[260,261,262],"th",{},"Phrase",[260,264,265],{},"Translation",[260,267,268],{},"Context",[270,271,272,283,293,304,315,326,337,348],"tbody",{},[257,273,274,277,280],{},[275,276,89],"td",{},[275,278,279],{},"Please (formal)",[275,281,282],{},"Universal",[257,284,285,287,290],{},[275,286,95],{},[275,288,289],{},"Please (informal)",[275,291,292],{},"Universal informal",[257,294,295,298,301],{},[275,296,297],{},"Je vous en prie",[275,299,300],{},"I beg you \u002F please \u002F go ahead",[275,302,303],{},"Universal formal warm",[257,305,306,309,312],{},[275,307,308],{},"Je t'en prie",[275,310,311],{},"Please \u002F go ahead",[275,313,314],{},"Informal warm",[257,316,317,320,323],{},[275,318,319],{},"Veuillez...",[275,321,322],{},"Would you please \u002F be so good as to...",[275,324,325],{},"Very formal written",[257,327,328,331,334],{},[275,329,330],{},"Auriez-vous l'amabilite de...",[275,332,333],{},"Would you have the amiability to...",[275,335,336],{},"Very formal",[257,338,339,342,345],{},[275,340,341],{},"S'il vous plait, je vous en prie",[275,343,344],{},"Please, I beg you",[275,346,347],{},"Compound emphasis",[257,349,350,353,356],{},[275,351,352],{},"Si cela ne vous derange pas",[275,354,355],{},"If it does not disturb you",[275,357,358],{},"Polite softener",[191,360,297],{"id":361},"je-vous-en-prie",[49,363,364],{},"A multi-purpose polite phrase that has several functions:",[82,366,367,373,379],{},[85,368,369,372],{},[53,370,371],{},"\"You're welcome\""," in response to \"merci\" (the warm formal version).",[85,374,375,378],{},[53,376,377],{},"\"Please go ahead\""," - offering someone the right of way, the floor, or a seat.",[85,380,381,384],{},[53,382,383],{},"\"Please \u002F I beg you\""," - in pleading contexts.",[49,386,387],{},"The phrase is one of the most fluent-sounding French politeness markers; deploying it correctly in the right context signals genuine French fluency.",[191,389,391],{"id":390},"veuillez","Veuillez",[49,393,394],{},"The very formal \"please\" - used in formal written instructions and signage:",[82,396,397,403,409],{},[85,398,399,402],{},[53,400,401],{},"Veuillez patienter"," - \"Please wait\" (signs in waiting rooms).",[85,404,405,408],{},[53,406,407],{},"Veuillez ne pas fumer"," - \"Please do not smoke.\"",[85,410,411,414],{},[53,412,413],{},"Veuillez agreer mes salutations distinguees"," - very formal letter sign-off.",[49,416,417,419],{},[53,418,391],{}," is rare in spoken French - it sounds overly formal for casual conversation - but is universal in formal written contexts.",[62,421,423],{"id":422},"the-cultural-register-on-politeness","The cultural register on politeness",[49,425,426],{},"French politeness has specific conventions that English speakers should understand:",[191,428,430],{"id":429},"the-mandatory-politeness-formula-in-shops","The mandatory politeness formula in shops",[49,432,433],{},"French service interactions are politeness-rigorous. The required sequence:",[435,436,437,443,448,454,460],"ol",{},[85,438,439,442],{},[53,440,441],{},"Bonjour"," when entering.",[85,444,445,447],{},[53,446,441],{}," returned by the assistant.",[85,449,450,453],{},[53,451,452],{},"Pourriez-vous... s'il vous plait?"," for the request.",[85,455,456,459],{},[53,457,458],{},"Merci"," when receiving the item.",[85,461,462,465],{},[53,463,464],{},"Au revoir, bonne journee \u002F bonne soiree"," when leaving.",[49,467,468,469,472,473,476],{},"Skipping any of these reads as rude. Foreign visitors who say \"one baguette\" without ",[53,470,471],{},"bonjour"," and ",[53,474,475],{},"s'il vous plait"," are the source of much of the \"French are rude to tourists\" reputation - the rudeness is more frequently the missing politeness formula on the foreign visitor's side.",[191,478,480],{"id":479},"the-conditional-is-mandatory-at-restaurants","The conditional is mandatory at restaurants",[49,482,483,484,487,488,490,491,493],{},"French restaurant ordering uses the conditional: ",[53,485,486],{},"je voudrais..."," (\"I would like...\"), not ",[53,489,223],{}," (\"I want...\"). Using ",[53,492,227],{}," sounds genuinely demanding to a French server.",[191,495,497],{"id":496},"the-please-tag-is-more-reflexively-used-than-in-spanish","The \"please\" tag is more reflexively used than in Spanish",[49,499,500,501,504,505,507],{},"Unlike Spanish (where polite verb forms can carry politeness without ",[53,502,503],{},"por favor","), French expects ",[53,506,475],{}," at the end of most requests. The reflexive English-speaker use of \"please\" transfers well to French.",[62,509,511],{"id":510},"responding-to-requests-with-sil-vous-plait","Responding to requests with s'il vous plait",[49,513,514,515,517],{},"When someone makes a request with ",[53,516,475],{},", the standard responses:",[82,519,520,526,532,538,544,550],{},[85,521,522,525],{},[53,523,524],{},"Bien sur"," - \"of course\"",[85,527,528,531],{},[53,529,530],{},"Avec plaisir"," - \"with pleasure\"",[85,533,534,537],{},[53,535,536],{},"Volontiers"," - \"willingly \u002F gladly\"",[85,539,540,543],{},[53,541,542],{},"Tout de suite"," - \"right away\"",[85,545,546,549],{},[53,547,548],{},"Pas de probleme"," - \"no problem\" (casual)",[85,551,552,554],{},[53,553,297],{}," - \"please (go ahead)\" - granting permission",[49,556,557,558,561,562,179],{},"The casual default response is ",[53,559,560],{},"bien sur"," or ",[53,563,564],{},"avec plaisir",[62,566,568],{"id":567},"special-situations","Special situations",[191,570,572],{"id":571},"ordering-at-a-restaurant","Ordering at a restaurant",[82,574,575,581,587],{},[85,576,577,580],{},[53,578,579],{},"Je voudrais un cafe, s'il vous plait"," - I would like a coffee, please (universal).",[85,582,583,586],{},[53,584,585],{},"Pourriez-vous m'apporter l'addition, s'il vous plait?"," - Could you bring me the bill, please?",[85,588,589,592],{},[53,590,591],{},"Un cafe, s'il vous plait"," - A coffee, please (minimal but acceptable).",[191,594,596],{"id":595},"asking-for-directions","Asking for directions",[82,598,599,605],{},[85,600,601,604],{},[53,602,603],{},"Pardon, pourriez-vous m'indiquer le chemin pour..., s'il vous plait?"," - Excuse me, could you show me the way to..., please?",[85,606,607,610],{},[53,608,609],{},"Excusez-moi, ou se trouve..., s'il vous plait?"," - Excuse me, where is..., please?",[191,612,614],{"id":613},"asking-for-repetition","Asking for repetition",[82,616,617,623],{},[85,618,619,622],{},[53,620,621],{},"Pardon, pourriez-vous repeter, s'il vous plait?"," - Excuse me, could you repeat, please?",[85,624,625,628],{},[53,626,627],{},"Encore une fois, s'il vous plait"," - One more time, please.",[191,630,632],{"id":631},"asking-someone-to-wait","Asking someone to wait",[82,634,635,641],{},[85,636,637,640],{},[53,638,639],{},"Un instant, s'il vous plait"," - A moment, please.",[85,642,643,646],{},[53,644,645],{},"Patientez un moment, s'il vous plait"," - Wait a moment, please.",[191,648,650],{"id":649},"in-writing-emails-letters","In writing (emails, letters)",[82,652,653,659,665],{},[85,654,655,658],{},[53,656,657],{},"Pourriez-vous me confirmer..., s'il vous plait?"," - Could you confirm..., please?",[85,660,661,664],{},[53,662,663],{},"Je vous saurais gre de..."," - I would be grateful if... (formal).",[85,666,667,670],{},[53,668,669],{},"Veuillez trouver ci-joint..."," - Please find attached... (formal email convention).",[62,672,674],{"id":673},"regional-variations","Regional variations",[191,676,678],{"id":677},"france","France",[82,680,681,687,690],{},[85,682,683,686],{},[53,684,685],{},"S'il vous plait \u002F s'il te plait"," are universal.",[85,688,689],{},"The conditional polite-request form is the workhorse of French politeness.",[85,691,692,693,696],{},"The standalone ",[53,694,695],{},"s'il vous plait!"," to get attention is universal in restaurants and shops.",[191,698,700],{"id":699},"quebec","Quebec",[82,702,703,707,713],{},[85,704,705,686],{},[53,706,685],{},[85,708,709,710,712],{},"The phrase ",[53,711,475],{}," is sometimes shortened to \"s'il-vous-plait\" with less articulation than in France.",[85,714,715],{},"Quebec French uses politeness slightly less rigorously than France French in casual commercial contexts.",[191,717,719],{"id":718},"belgium","Belgium",[82,721,722,725],{},[85,723,724],{},"Standard French politeness conventions dominate.",[85,726,709,727,729,730,733],{},[53,728,475],{}," is sometimes used as \"you're welcome\" in some Belgian regional contexts - parallel to how ",[53,731,732],{},"je vous en prie"," functions in France.",[191,735,737],{"id":736},"switzerland-french-speaking","Switzerland (French-speaking)",[82,739,740,742],{},[85,741,724],{},[85,743,744],{},"Slightly more formal register in commercial contexts than France French.",[62,746,748],{"id":747},"a-few-useful-related-phrases","A few useful related phrases",[251,750,751,760],{},[254,752,753],{},[257,754,755,757],{},[260,756,262],{},[260,758,759],{},"Meaning",[270,761,762,770,778,786,794,802],{},[257,763,764,767],{},[275,765,766],{},"Merci d'avance",[275,768,769],{},"Thanks in advance",[257,771,772,775],{},[275,773,774],{},"Avec votre permission",[275,776,777],{},"With your permission",[257,779,780,783],{},[275,781,782],{},"Si je peux me permettre",[275,784,785],{},"If I may permit myself",[257,787,788,791],{},[275,789,790],{},"Pardonnez-moi",[275,792,793],{},"Forgive me (asking permission)",[257,795,796,799],{},[275,797,798],{},"Permettez-moi",[275,800,801],{},"Allow me",[257,803,804,806],{},[275,805,330],{},[275,807,333],{},[62,809,811],{"id":810},"how-to-actually-internalise-these","How to actually internalise these",[49,813,814],{},"Three practical recommendations:",[435,816,817,829,841],{},[85,818,819,822,823,825,826,828],{},[53,820,821],{},"Use s'il vous plait reflexively in shops and restaurants."," The end-position ",[53,824,475],{}," is mandatory in French service interactions. Defaulting to ",[53,827,238],{}," form with strangers is the right move.",[85,830,831,834,835,837,838,840],{},[53,832,833],{},"Master je voudrais."," The conditional ",[53,836,486],{}," (I would like...) is dramatically more polite than ",[53,839,223],{}," (I want). Use it for all restaurant ordering and most polite requests.",[85,842,843,846],{},[53,844,845],{},"Learn je vous en prie."," Multi-purpose polite phrase that functions as \"you're welcome,\" \"please go ahead,\" and \"please \u002F I beg you.\" Using it in the right context is a real French-fluency marker.",[62,848,850],{"id":849},"cross-references","Cross-references",[82,852,853,862,869,878,885],{},[85,854,855,856,861],{},"The ",[857,858,860],"a",{"href":859},"\u002Ffrench","French for adult learners pillar"," covers the wider French learning approach.",[85,863,855,864,868],{},[857,865,867],{"href":866},"\u002Fresources\u002Fhow-to-say-hello-in-french","how to say hello in French article"," covers the greeting register including the bonjour rule.",[85,870,855,871,875,876,179],{},[857,872,874],{"href":873},"\u002Fresources\u002Fhow-to-say-thank-you-in-french","how to say thank you in French article"," covers the gratitude vocabulary that pairs with ",[53,877,475],{},[85,879,855,880,884],{},[857,881,883],{"href":882},"\u002Fresources\u002Fhow-to-say-sorry-in-french","how to say sorry in French article"," covers the apology register.",[85,886,855,887,891],{},[857,888,890],{"href":889},"\u002Ffrench\u002Fgrammar","French grammar cheatsheet"," covers the conditional verb form that underlies polite French requests.",{"title":893,"searchDepth":894,"depth":894,"links":895},"",2,[896,897,898,899,904,908,913,914,921,927,928,929],{"id":64,"depth":894,"text":65},{"id":119,"depth":894,"text":120},{"id":152,"depth":894,"text":153},{"id":182,"depth":894,"text":183,"children":900},[901,903],{"id":193,"depth":902,"text":194},3,{"id":231,"depth":902,"text":232},{"id":245,"depth":894,"text":246,"children":905},[906,907],{"id":361,"depth":902,"text":297},{"id":390,"depth":902,"text":391},{"id":422,"depth":894,"text":423,"children":909},[910,911,912],{"id":429,"depth":902,"text":430},{"id":479,"depth":902,"text":480},{"id":496,"depth":902,"text":497},{"id":510,"depth":894,"text":511},{"id":567,"depth":894,"text":568,"children":915},[916,917,918,919,920],{"id":571,"depth":902,"text":572},{"id":595,"depth":902,"text":596},{"id":613,"depth":902,"text":614},{"id":631,"depth":902,"text":632},{"id":649,"depth":902,"text":650},{"id":673,"depth":894,"text":674,"children":922},[923,924,925,926],{"id":677,"depth":902,"text":678},{"id":699,"depth":902,"text":700},{"id":718,"depth":902,"text":719},{"id":736,"depth":902,"text":737},{"id":747,"depth":894,"text":748},{"id":810,"depth":894,"text":811},{"id":849,"depth":894,"text":850},"Methodology",null,"2026-06-05T00:00:00+00:00","How to say please in French. S'il vous plait, s'il te plait, the formal and informal register, the conditional polite request form, and regional variations.","md",[936,939,942,945],{"q":937,"a":938},"What is the difference between s'il vous plait and s'il te plait?","Vous vs tu. S'il vous plait is the formal please used with strangers, in any business or service context, with anyone older you have just met, and in plural contexts. S'il te plait is the informal please reserved for friends, family, peers and children. The mistake English speakers make is defaulting to s'il te plait with everyone because tu feels friendlier; in French it reads as inappropriately familiar with strangers.",{"q":940,"a":941},"Is it rude to say je veux instead of je voudrais in a French restaurant?","Yes, noticeably. Je veux (I want) is the direct indicative and lands as demanding or childish in adult service contexts. Je voudrais (I would like) is the conditional and is the polite norm. The conditional carries inherent politeness in French, often without needing s'il vous plait at the end. For any restaurant or shop ordering, the right move is je voudrais un cafe, s'il vous plait.",{"q":943,"a":944},"Where does s'il vous plait go in the sentence?","Most commonly at the end of the request: pourriez-vous m'aider, s'il vous plait. It can also go at the beginning as a softener (s'il vous plait, pourriez-vous m'aider) or stand alone to get a server's attention (s'il vous plait!). The end-position is the spoken default and the most natural-sounding for everyday polite requests.",{"q":946,"a":947},"What does je vous en prie mean and when do I use it?","Literally I beg you. In modern French it functions as a multi-purpose polite phrase: as you are welcome in response to merci, as please go ahead when offering someone the floor or a seat, and as a formal please in pleading contexts. Using je vous en prie as the response to merci in service interactions is the single move that immediately marks you as comfortable with French politeness conventions rather than translating from English.",{},"\u002Fresources\u002Ffrench\u002Fhow-to-say-please-in-french",{"title":37,"description":933},"resources\u002Ffrench\u002Fhow-to-say-please-in-french",[953,954,955,956],"french phrases","french vocabulary","french for beginners","please","S'il vous plait (formal) and s'il te plait (informal) are the universal phrases, but the conditional je voudrais and pourriez-vous are the workhorse of French politeness and je veux (I want) is what sounds demanding; defaulting to s'il te plait with strangers is the consistent learner mistake.","RNfm8JIbFCwbjLevdOPD89sQjjuYEKaifC1q53OkH3U",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":960},"\u003Cpath fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M10 18v-7m1.119-8.795a2 2 0 0 1 1.762 0l7.84 3.846A.5.5 0 0 1 20.5 7h-17a.5.5 0 0 1-.22-.949zM14 18v-7m4 7v-7M3 22h18M6 18v-7\"\u002F>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":962},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M12 15V3m9 12v4a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H5a2 2 0 0 1-2-2v-4\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m7 10l5 5l5-5\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":964},"\u003Cpath fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M13 21h8M15 5l4 4m2.174-2.188a1 1 0 0 0-3.986-3.987L3.842 16.174a2 2 0 0 0-.5.83l-1.321 4.352a.5.5 0 0 0 .623.622l4.353-1.32a2 2 0 0 0 .83-.497z\"\u002F>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":966},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Crect width=\"18\" height=\"18\" x=\"3\" y=\"3\" rx=\"2\" ry=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Ccircle cx=\"9\" cy=\"9\" r=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m21 15l-3.086-3.086a2 2 0 0 0-2.828 0L6 21\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":968},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M6 22a2 2 0 0 1-2-2V4a2 2 0 0 1 2-2h8a2.4 2.4 0 0 1 1.704.706l3.588 3.588A2.4 2.4 0 0 1 20 8v12a2 2 0 0 1-2 2z\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"M14 2v5a1 1 0 0 0 1 1h5M10 9H8m8 4H8m8 4H8\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",1781519465690]