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The gratitude article is one where that limit matters in specific ways. The bu hao yi si softener and the ma fan ni le acknowledgement are well-attested in the cultural-linguistics literature, but the family-context register call - the claim that over-thanking inside Chinese families can read as distancing - is the kind of thing where the literature and the speakers I have asked agree, but where I would defer to actual lived experience over my reading.\n\nWhat I will commit to is the position the whole how-to-say cluster runs on: politeness vocabulary is the most culturally loaded vocabulary in any language, and Mandarin gratitude is one of the cases where the underlying cultural model is genuinely different from the Western one, not just lexically. English gratitude is verbal, frequent and explicit. Traditional Chinese gratitude was historically more action-based, reciprocity-based, and verbally restrained. The modern urban register has absorbed Western verbal-thanks norms heavily, but the older model still shows up in the language: ma fan ni le frames thanks around the trouble caused rather than the favour received, xin ku le acknowledges the effort the other person put in, and over-thanking inside an established relationship can read as treating someone as a stranger rather than as part of the in-group.\n\nThe hill I will land on, with the caveat that I would test it locally before betting, is that the right move for a Western learner is to add bu hao yi si and ma fan ni le to the active gratitude vocabulary alongside xie xie, and to pay attention to whether the relationship and the cultural context want verbal thanks at the English-speaking frequency or at a lower one. The default of xie xie liberally with strangers, in service contexts and with new contacts is safe. The recalibration is to read whether the people you are spending time with want more or less verbal acknowledgement and to mirror their register rather than imposing the English-speaking one on top. That is also the cultural intelligence move, and it generalises beyond gratitude.\n",{"type":41,"value":42,"toc":758},"minimark",[43,48,61,66,72,75,90,93,96,100,103,213,218,225,236,240,243,247,254,258,265,276,279,283,286,297,300,304,311,314,328,331,341,345,348,430,434,437,441,444,448,451,455,458,462,466,491,495,515,519,531,535,563,567,571,574,577,581,588,592,595,598,602,674,678,681,716,720],[44,45,47],"h1",{"id":46},"how-to-say-thank-you-in-mandarin","How to Say Thank You in Mandarin",[49,50,51,52,56,57,60],"p",{},"The default answer is ",[53,54,55],"strong",{},"xie4 xie"," (谢谢) - \"thank you \u002F thanks.\" The phrase is universal across the Mandarin-speaking world and works for almost every situation. But Chinese gratitude vocabulary has cultural depths that diverge meaningfully from English-speaking norms, and learners who use only ",[53,58,59],{},"xie xie"," without engaging with the broader register often come across as either flat or oddly performative. This article covers the basic phrase, the intensifiers, the closely related softeners (which are not gratitude in English but function as gratitude in Chinese contexts), and the response register.",[62,63,65],"h2",{"id":64},"the-basic-phrase","The basic phrase",[49,67,68,71],{},[53,69,70],{},"Xie4 xie"," (谢谢) - \"thank you.\"",[49,73,74],{},"The pronunciation:",[76,77,78,85],"ul",{},[79,80,81,84],"li",{},[53,82,83],{},"Xie"," (xie, fourth tone) - falling sharply from high to low.",[79,86,87,89],{},[53,88,83],{}," (xie, neutral tone in the repeated form) - light, unaccented.",[49,91,92],{},"In practice, native speakers often produce both syllables with similar light stress in rapid speech; the formal tone marking is xie4 xie (4 + neutral).",[49,94,95],{},"The phrase is grammatically a verb compound; the literal meaning is \"thank-thank\" or \"express-gratitude-express-gratitude\" with the doubling functioning as light emphasis. The doubled form is the universal standard; a single \"xie\" alone is not idiomatic.",[62,97,99],{"id":98},"intensifying-gratitude","Intensifying gratitude",[49,101,102],{},"The Mandarin gratitude scale:",[104,105,106,122],"table",{},[107,108,109],"thead",{},[110,111,112,116,119],"tr",{},[113,114,115],"th",{},"English",[113,117,118],{},"Mandarin",[113,120,121],{},"When to use",[123,124,125,137,147,158,169,180,191,202],"tbody",{},[110,126,127,131,134],{},[128,129,130],"td",{},"Thanks",[128,132,133],{},"Xie xie (谢谢)",[128,135,136],{},"Default everyday",[110,138,139,142,144],{},[128,140,141],{},"Thank you",[128,143,133],{},[128,145,146],{},"Same phrase",[110,148,149,152,155],{},[128,150,151],{},"Thank you very much",[128,153,154],{},"Fei chang gan xie \u002F Hen gan xie (非常感谢 \u002F 很感谢)",[128,156,157],{},"Formal warmer",[110,159,160,163,166],{},[128,161,162],{},"Thank you so much",[128,164,165],{},"Tai gan xie ni le (太感谢你了)",[128,167,168],{},"Emphatic",[110,170,171,174,177],{},[128,172,173],{},"Thanks a lot",[128,175,176],{},"Duo xie (多谢)",[128,178,179],{},"Casual emphasised",[110,181,182,185,188],{},[128,183,184],{},"I am very grateful",[128,186,187],{},"Wo hen gan ji (我很感激)",[128,189,190],{},"Formal serious",[110,192,193,196,199],{},[128,194,195],{},"Sorry to trouble you (which functions as gratitude)",[128,197,198],{},"Ma fan ni le (麻烦你了)",[128,200,201],{},"Common after receiving help",[110,203,204,207,210],{},[128,205,206],{},"You have worked hard (which functions as gratitude)",[128,208,209],{},"Xin ku le (辛苦了)",[128,211,212],{},"After someone has done work for you",[214,215,217],"h3",{"id":216},"fei-chang-gan-xie-hen-gan-xie","Fei chang gan xie \u002F Hen gan xie",[49,219,220,221,224],{},"\"I very much thank you\" \u002F \"I really thank you.\" More formal than xie xie. The verb ",[53,222,223],{},"gan xie"," (感谢, literally \"feel-thank\") is the formal Mandarin verb for gratitude. Use this in:",[76,226,227,230,233],{},[79,228,229],{},"Business contexts.",[79,231,232],{},"Formal written communications.",[79,234,235],{},"Sincere thanks for something significant.",[214,237,239],{"id":238},"duo-xie","Duo xie",[49,241,242],{},"\"Many thanks.\" Casual emphasised. Common in spoken Mandarin among friends and colleagues. Less formal than fei chang gan xie but warmer than xie xie alone.",[214,244,246],{"id":245},"wo-hen-gan-ji","Wo hen gan ji",[49,248,249,250,253],{},"\"I am very grateful.\" More formal and weighted than hen gan xie; uses the verb ",[53,251,252],{},"gan ji"," (感激) which carries a more emotional connotation. Use this for genuinely substantial favours or for moments of deeper gratitude.",[214,255,257],{"id":256},"ma-fan-ni-le","Ma fan ni le",[49,259,260,261,264],{},"Literally \"I have troubled you.\" This phrase ",[53,262,263],{},"functions as gratitude in Chinese culture"," even though it does not have a direct English equivalent. Use it:",[76,266,267,270,273],{},[79,268,269],{},"After someone has done you a favour at some cost to themselves.",[79,271,272],{},"As a sign-off when receiving substantial help.",[79,274,275],{},"In service contexts when staff have gone out of their way for you.",[49,277,278],{},"The English-speaking learner's reflex is to use thank-you language; the Mandarin native-speaker reflex includes \"ma fan ni le\" as part of the gratitude vocabulary. Learning to deploy it marks you as comfortable with Chinese cultural conventions.",[214,280,282],{"id":281},"xin-ku-le","Xin ku le",[49,284,285],{},"Literally \"you have worked hard.\" Functions as gratitude when someone has put effort into something for you. Use it:",[76,287,288,291,294],{},[79,289,290],{},"When a service worker has done significant work.",[79,292,293],{},"When a colleague has put effort into a project on your behalf.",[79,295,296],{},"When meeting someone who has done work for you.",[49,298,299],{},"Again, no direct English equivalent. The cultural register treats acknowledging effort as a form of gratitude.",[62,301,303],{"id":302},"the-bu-hao-yisi-softener","The bu hao yisi softener",[49,305,306,307,310],{},"A specifically Chinese phrase that English speakers consistently under-deploy: ",[53,308,309],{},"bu4 hao3 yi4 si"," (不好意思). Literally \"not good meaning,\" but functionally a multi-purpose softener that English speakers handle with various separate phrases.",[49,312,313],{},"Bu hao yisi covers:",[76,315,316,319,322,325],{},[79,317,318],{},"\"Excuse me\" when asking a stranger for help.",[79,320,321],{},"\"Sorry to bother you\" when intruding on someone's time.",[79,323,324],{},"\"Thank you for waiting\" after a delay.",[79,326,327],{},"A general politeness-softener at the start of requests.",[49,329,330],{},"The cultural register: bu hao yisi is the polite friction-softener Mandarin uses constantly. English speakers trying to translate it as \"sorry\" miss the broader role. It is not specifically an apology; it is a multi-purpose politeness marker that includes gratitude territory.",[49,332,333,334,337,338,340],{},"For learners: pair ",[53,335,336],{},"bu hao yisi"," with ",[53,339,59],{}," in interactions where you are receiving help. The combination (\"bu hao yisi, ma fan ni le, xie xie\") is what native speakers actually say in real life, not just \"xie xie\" alone.",[62,342,344],{"id":343},"responding-to-thank-you","Responding to thank you",[49,346,347],{},"Mandarin has several distinct responses to thank you, each with its own register.",[104,349,350,362],{},[107,351,352],{},[110,353,354,357,360],{},[113,355,356],{},"Response",[113,358,359],{},"Literal meaning",[113,361,121],{},[123,363,364,375,386,397,408,419],{},[110,365,366,369,372],{},[128,367,368],{},"Bu yong xie (不用谢)",[128,370,371],{},"\"No need to thank\"",[128,373,374],{},"Universal \"you're welcome\"",[110,376,377,380,383],{},[128,378,379],{},"Bu ke qi (不客气)",[128,381,382],{},"\"Don't be polite\"",[128,384,385],{},"Common warm response",[110,387,388,391,394],{},[128,389,390],{},"Mei guan xi (没关系)",[128,392,393],{},"\"No matter \u002F no problem\"",[128,395,396],{},"Casual modest",[110,398,399,402,405],{},[128,400,401],{},"Bu xie (不谢)",[128,403,404],{},"\"Don't thank\"",[128,406,407],{},"Casual brief",[110,409,410,413,416],{},[128,411,412],{},"Ying gai de (应该的)",[128,414,415],{},"\"It is what should be done\"",[128,417,418],{},"Modest, deflects the gratitude",[110,420,421,424,427],{},[128,422,423],{},"Bu ke qi, bu ke qi",[128,425,426],{},"(Doubled for emphasis)",[128,428,429],{},"Warmer",[214,431,433],{"id":432},"bu-yong-xie","Bu yong xie",[49,435,436],{},"\"No need to thank.\" Universal Mandarin response to thank you. Works in any context.",[214,438,440],{"id":439},"bu-ke-qi","Bu ke qi",[49,442,443],{},"Literally \"do not be polite.\" The warm response that signals \"do not feel obliged to thank me, this is normal.\" Common across the Mandarin-speaking world; slightly more colloquial than bu yong xie.",[214,445,447],{"id":446},"mei-guan-xi","Mei guan xi",[49,449,450],{},"Literally \"no relation \u002F no matter.\" Functions as \"no problem\" or \"do not worry about it.\" Used when the thanks is for something the speaker considers trivial.",[214,452,454],{"id":453},"ying-gai-de","Ying gai de",[49,456,457],{},"\"It is what should be done.\" Modest deflecting response, indicating the speaker considers what they did to be just normal duty. Commonly used by service workers, family members, and in formal contexts.",[62,459,461],{"id":460},"regional-variations","Regional variations",[214,463,465],{"id":464},"mainland-china-putonghua","Mainland China (Putonghua)",[76,467,468,474,479,482],{},[79,469,470,473],{},[53,471,472],{},"Xie xie"," is universal.",[79,475,476,478],{},[53,477,440],{}," is the dominant warm response.",[79,480,481],{},"The bu hao yisi softener is widely used.",[79,483,484,485,490],{},"Tipping is not customary (see the ",[486,487,489],"a",{"href":488},"\u002Fresources\u002Fchina-dining-and-tipping-etiquette","China dining and tipping etiquette","), so verbal gratitude carries more relative weight than in Western contexts where tipping fills part of the social role.",[214,492,494],{"id":493},"taiwan-guoyu","Taiwan (Guoyu)",[76,496,497,501,506,512],{},[79,498,499,473],{},[53,500,472],{},[79,502,503,505],{},[53,504,440],{}," is also dominant.",[79,507,508,509,511],{},"Taiwan Mandarin tends to deploy softer politeness markers more frequently than mainland Putonghua, including ",[53,510,336],{}," in more contexts.",[79,513,514],{},"The Taiwanese cultural register around gratitude is similar to mainland Mandarin with slightly more verbal cushioning.",[214,516,518],{"id":517},"singapore-huayu","Singapore (Huayu)",[76,520,521,525,528],{},[79,522,523,473],{},[53,524,472],{},[79,526,527],{},"Code-switching with English (\"thank you\") is common in casual contexts.",[79,529,530],{},"Responses match mainland Mandarin standards.",[214,532,534],{"id":533},"hong-kong","Hong Kong",[76,536,537,547,554],{},[79,538,539,540,542,543,546],{},"Hong Kong operates primarily in Cantonese. The Mandarin ",[53,541,59],{}," is understood but the local equivalent is Cantonese ",[53,544,545],{},"m goi"," (唔該) which functions more broadly as a multi-purpose politeness marker (excuse me \u002F thank you \u002F please).",[79,548,549,550,553],{},"The Cantonese ",[53,551,552],{},"doh je"," (多謝) is a more specific thank-you phrase used after receiving something tangible.",[79,555,556,557,559,560,562],{},"For travellers in Hong Kong: Cantonese ",[53,558,545],{}," is the everyday politeness phrase; Mandarin ",[53,561,59],{}," is understood but marks you as a non-Hong Kong speaker.",[62,564,566],{"id":565},"the-cultural-register","The cultural register",[214,568,570],{"id":569},"verbal-gratitude-does-work-in-mandarin-that-other-gestures-do-in-english","Verbal gratitude does work in Mandarin that other gestures do in English",[49,572,573],{},"Chinese culture historically valued action-based gratitude (reciprocating favours, doing something in return) over verbal gratitude. The English speaker's reflex to verbally thank for small things can come across as performative or even slightly distancing in some traditional Chinese contexts; over-thanking can read as treating the speaker as a stranger rather than as part of an established relationship.",[49,575,576],{},"In modern urban Chinese contexts (especially among young Mandarin speakers), Western verbal-thanks norms are increasingly absorbed and over-thanking is no longer the issue it might have been a generation ago. The cultural register has shifted.",[214,578,580],{"id":579},"the-softener-register-is-what-really-differentiates-fluent-speakers","The softener register is what really differentiates fluent speakers",[49,582,583,584,587],{},"The single biggest cultural register difference: ",[53,585,586],{},"fluent Mandarin speakers integrate bu hao yisi, ma fan ni le, and xin ku le into their gratitude conversations",". English-speaking learners who use only xie xie are technically correct but miss the cultural conventions. The combination of the softener (bu hao yisi when asking for help, ma fan ni le when help is provided, xin ku le when work is done) plus xie xie is what produces gratitude that lands naturally.",[214,589,591],{"id":590},"family-contexts-treat-thanks-differently","Family contexts treat thanks differently",[49,593,594],{},"In Chinese family contexts (immediate family, in-laws, close relatives), verbal \"xie xie\" is sometimes considered overly formal. Family members typically do not thank each other for ordinary acts; the cultural assumption is that family does these things naturally. Foreign learners marrying into Chinese families often over-thank initially and have to recalibrate.",[49,596,597],{},"This is changing in younger urban Chinese families, where Western-style thanks have become more common. But it is a real cultural variable.",[62,599,601],{"id":600},"a-few-useful-related-phrases","A few useful related phrases",[104,603,604,617],{},[107,605,606],{},[110,607,608,611,614],{},[113,609,610],{},"Phrase",[113,612,613],{},"Character",[113,615,616],{},"Meaning",[123,618,619,630,641,652,663],{},[110,620,621,624,627],{},[128,622,623],{},"Xie xie nin (谢谢您)",[128,625,626],{},"谢谢您",[128,628,629],{},"\"Thank you\" using the formal \"you\" - polite\u002Frespectful version",[110,631,632,635,638],{},[128,633,634],{},"Tai gan xie le (太感谢了)",[128,636,637],{},"太感谢了",[128,639,640],{},"\"Thanks so much\" - emphatic",[110,642,643,646,649],{},[128,644,645],{},"Wo zhen de hen gan dong (我真的很感动)",[128,647,648],{},"我真的很感动",[128,650,651],{},"\"I am really touched\" - emotional gratitude",[110,653,654,657,660],{},[128,655,656],{},"Hen gan xie nin de bang zhu (很感谢您的帮助)",[128,658,659],{},"很感谢您的帮助",[128,661,662],{},"\"Many thanks for your help\" - formal",[110,664,665,668,671],{},[128,666,667],{},"Ying gai shi wo xie xie nin (应该是我谢谢您)",[128,669,670],{},"应该是我谢谢您",[128,672,673],{},"\"It is I who should be thanking you\" - reverse-thanks",[62,675,677],{"id":676},"how-to-actually-internalise-these","How to actually internalise these",[49,679,680],{},"Three practical recommendations:",[682,683,684,697,710],"ol",{},[79,685,686,689,690,692,693,696],{},[53,687,688],{},"Pair xie xie with the softener register."," Learn ",[53,691,336],{}," and ",[53,694,695],{},"ma fan ni le"," as part of your gratitude vocabulary. Using them in the right places marks you as comfortable with Chinese cultural conventions rather than just translating English.",[79,698,699,702,703,705,706,709],{},[53,700,701],{},"Master at least two response phrases."," ",[53,704,433],{}," is the safe default; ",[53,707,708],{},"bu ke qi"," is the warm everyday alternative. Knowing both lets you match the warmth of the original thanks.",[79,711,712,715],{},[53,713,714],{},"Watch the family register."," In Chinese family contexts, especially traditional ones, over-thanking can feel distancing. Mirror the family's norms rather than imposing English-style gratitude conventions.",[62,717,719],{"id":718},"cross-references","Cross-references",[76,721,722,730,737,744,751],{},[79,723,724,725,729],{},"The ",[486,726,728],{"href":727},"\u002Fmandarin","Mandarin for adult learners pillar"," covers the wider Mandarin learning approach.",[79,731,724,732,736],{},[486,733,735],{"href":734},"\u002Fmandarin\u002Fgrammar","Mandarin grammar cheatsheet"," covers the structures underlying these phrases.",[79,738,724,739,743],{},[486,740,742],{"href":741},"\u002Fmandarin\u002Faccents","Mandarin variety guide"," covers the mainland vs Taiwan vs Hong Kong distinctions.",[79,745,724,746,750],{},[486,747,749],{"href":748},"\u002Fresources\u002Fcommon-mistakes-mandarin-english-speakers","common mistakes for English speakers in Mandarin"," covers the politeness-register gaps that this article extends.",[79,752,724,753,757],{},[486,754,756],{"href":755},"\u002Ftools\u002Fmandarin-tones","Mandarin tone trainer"," provides the tone-discrimination practice that ensures xie xie lands with the correct fourth tone.",{"title":759,"searchDepth":760,"depth":760,"links":761},"",2,[762,763,771,772,778,784,789,790,791],{"id":64,"depth":760,"text":65},{"id":98,"depth":760,"text":99,"children":764},[765,767,768,769,770],{"id":216,"depth":766,"text":217},3,{"id":238,"depth":766,"text":239},{"id":245,"depth":766,"text":246},{"id":256,"depth":766,"text":257},{"id":281,"depth":766,"text":282},{"id":302,"depth":760,"text":303},{"id":343,"depth":760,"text":344,"children":773},[774,775,776,777],{"id":432,"depth":766,"text":433},{"id":439,"depth":766,"text":440},{"id":446,"depth":766,"text":447},{"id":453,"depth":766,"text":454},{"id":460,"depth":760,"text":461,"children":779},[780,781,782,783],{"id":464,"depth":766,"text":465},{"id":493,"depth":766,"text":494},{"id":517,"depth":766,"text":518},{"id":533,"depth":766,"text":534},{"id":565,"depth":760,"text":566,"children":785},[786,787,788],{"id":569,"depth":766,"text":570},{"id":579,"depth":766,"text":580},{"id":590,"depth":766,"text":591},{"id":600,"depth":760,"text":601},{"id":676,"depth":760,"text":677},{"id":718,"depth":760,"text":719},"Methodology",null,"2026-06-05T00:00:00+00:00","How to say thank you in Mandarin Chinese. 谢谢 (xie xie) with tones, the cultural register around gratitude, the bu hao yisi softener, and how to respond when someone thanks you.","md",[798,801,804,807],{"q":799,"a":800},"What is the difference between xie xie and bu ke qi?","Xie xie is thank you. Bu ke qi is the warm response meaning you are welcome (literally do not be polite, do not feel obliged). Bu yong xie (no need to thank) is the universal safe response. Mei guan xi (no problem) is the casual modest response. Foreign learners often master xie xie quickly and then struggle on the response side; mastering at least two response phrases is the next-step move.",{"q":802,"a":803},"Why do Chinese people say I have troubled you to mean thank you?","Because the Mandarin gratitude register frames thanks around the cost to the helper rather than the benefit to the helped. Ma fan ni le (literally I have troubled you) functions as gratitude in Chinese contexts even though it has no direct English equivalent. The cultural assumption is that asking for help is an imposition and acknowledging the imposition is the polite move; this is parallel to bu hao yi si and reflects the broader Mandarin politeness model.",{"q":805,"a":806},"Is it rude to over-thank a Chinese family member?","Not rude exactly, but it can read as oddly formal or distancing in traditional family contexts. Older Chinese cultural conventions treat family as not needing verbal thanks for ordinary acts because family does these things naturally; the verbal xie xie can land as treating a family member as a stranger. Younger urban Chinese families have absorbed Western verbal-thanks norms and the gap has narrowed, but the older register is still present and foreign learners marrying into Chinese families often have to recalibrate.",{"q":808,"a":809},"Should I say xie xie with the formal nin or with ni?","Xie xie nin (using the formal you) is the appropriate respectful version for elders, strangers in business contexts and any first formal contact. Xie xie ni or just xie xie is the everyday casual register. The nin marker carries respect that adds politeness weight without needing intensifiers; pairing it with fei chang gan xie (I very much thank you) is the standard formal gratitude register for business and service contexts.",{},"\u002Fresources\u002Fmandarin\u002Fhow-to-say-thank-you-in-mandarin",{"title":37,"description":795},"resources\u002Fmandarin\u002Fhow-to-say-thank-you-in-mandarin",[815,816,817,818],"mandarin phrases","mandarin vocabulary","chinese for beginners","thank you","Xie xie is the universal but Mandarin gratitude often hangs on phrases that are not gratitude in English: ma fan ni le (I have troubled you) and xin ku le (you have worked hard) both function as thanks; over-thanking in close-family contexts can read as distancing because the cultural model treats family as not needing the verbal acknowledgement.","ty13MboI0qlyNVMHfz3YRuj7QlCXO7bVShqFcOVke14",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":822},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M15 12h-5m5-4h-5m9 9V5a2 2 0 0 0-2-2H4\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"M8 21h12a2 2 0 0 0 2-2v-1a1 1 0 0 0-1-1H11a1 1 0 0 0-1 1v1a2 2 0 1 1-4 0V5a2 2 0 1 0-4 0v2a1 1 0 0 0 1 1h3\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":824},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M12 15V3m9 12v4a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H5a2 2 0 0 1-2-2v-4\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m7 10l5 5l5-5\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":826},"\u003Cpath fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M13 21h8M15 5l4 4m2.174-2.188a1 1 0 0 0-3.986-3.987L3.842 16.174a2 2 0 0 0-.5.83l-1.321 4.352a.5.5 0 0 0 .623.622l4.353-1.32a2 2 0 0 0 .83-.497z\"\u002F>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":828},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Crect width=\"18\" height=\"18\" x=\"3\" y=\"3\" rx=\"2\" ry=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Ccircle cx=\"9\" cy=\"9\" r=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m21 15l-3.086-3.086a2 2 0 0 0-2.828 0L6 21\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":830},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M6 22a2 2 0 0 1-2-2V4a2 2 0 0 1 2-2h8a2.4 2.4 0 0 1 1.704.706l3.588 3.588A2.4 2.4 0 0 1 20 8v12a2 2 0 0 1-2 2z\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"M14 2v5a1 1 0 0 0 1 1h5M10 9H8m8 4H8m8 4H8\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",1781519466121]