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The southern English habit of saying sorry forty times a day for things that did not require apology was visible to my Spanish flatmates within days, and the gentle teasing about it ran for months. Lo siento, lo siento, lo siento every time I walked past somebody, every time I asked a question, every time I needed to squeeze past in the kitchen. It read as anxious, not polite. The Madrid register is closer to direct than apologetic in those micro-frictions; a perdon at the moment of contact is enough, a disculpe to get attention is enough, and lo siento is reserved for genuinely regretful moments.\n\nThe position I want to defend across the how-to-say cluster is that politeness vocabulary is the most culturally loaded vocabulary in any language, and the apology vocabulary is where the gap with British English shows fastest. English collapses three Spanish phrases into one word, and the result is that English speakers pick lo siento and use it everywhere because it sounds the most like sorry. That instinct is wrong on register and wrong on register-matching. Lo siento carries genuine regret. Perdon is the casual everyday acknowledgement. Disculpe is for getting attention or excusing yourself. Picking the right one for the moment is not advanced Spanish, it is the entry-level move that distinguishes a learner who has paid attention from one who has not.\n\nThe hill I will land on is that Spanish-speaking cultures apologise less performatively than British English does, and the right move for the British learner is to drop apologies you do not actually mean and to use disculpe (excuse me) where you would have said sorry in English. Spanish friends in Madrid did not apologise for taking up space, for asking questions, for slight delays, for any of the things British politeness reflexively apologises for. The right calibration is to mirror that register, not to translate the British reflex into a foreign language. Cut the lo siento out of routine friction and your Spanish will already sound less foreign.\n",{"type":41,"value":42,"toc":883},"minimark",[43,48,52,57,60,116,119,122,128,144,147,150,170,173,193,196,202,208,215,229,234,245,247,273,280,288,291,301,312,315,318,332,334,360,367,371,374,394,397,401,406,426,430,444,448,462,466,480,484,502,506,510,539,543,567,571,592,596,615,619,637,641,644,647,661,664,668,738,742,799,813,817,820,841,845],[44,45,47],"h1",{"id":46},"how-to-say-sorry-in-spanish","How to Say Sorry in Spanish",[49,50,51],"p",{},"Spanish has multiple distinct words for \"sorry\" that map to different situations: regret, getting attention, asking forgiveness, and apologising for something serious. English collapses most of these into the single word \"sorry,\" which trips up English-speaking learners who pick one Spanish equivalent and use it for everything. This article covers the three core apology words, their correct contexts, the intensifiers, and the regional variations.",[53,54,56],"h2",{"id":55},"the-three-core-apology-phrases","The three core apology phrases",[49,58,59],{},"Spanish distinguishes three primary apology situations:",[61,62,63,79],"table",{},[64,65,66],"thead",{},[67,68,69,73,76],"tr",{},[70,71,72],"th",{},"Situation",[70,74,75],{},"Spanish",[70,77,78],{},"English",[80,81,82,94,105],"tbody",{},[67,83,84,88,91],{},[85,86,87],"td",{},"Expressing regret \u002F sympathy",[85,89,90],{},"Lo siento",[85,92,93],{},"I'm sorry",[67,95,96,99,102],{},[85,97,98],{},"Asking forgiveness for a mistake",[85,100,101],{},"Perdon \u002F Perdoname",[85,103,104],{},"Sorry \u002F Forgive me",[67,106,107,110,113],{},[85,108,109],{},"Excusing yourself \u002F getting attention",[85,111,112],{},"Disculpe \u002F Disculpa",[85,114,115],{},"Excuse me",[49,117,118],{},"The mistake English speakers make: defaulting to \"lo siento\" for everything. That works for genuine regret but reads oddly when you have bumped into someone or need to get past in a crowd.",[53,120,90],{"id":121},"lo-siento",[49,123,124,127],{},[125,126,90],"strong",{}," - literally \"I feel it.\" Used for:",[129,130,131,135,138,141],"ul",{},[132,133,134],"li",{},"Expressing sympathy (\"I am sorry for your loss\")",[132,136,137],{},"Expressing regret about something unavoidable",[132,139,140],{},"Apologising for something significant you have done",[132,142,143],{},"Sincere apologies in personal contexts",[49,145,146],{},"Pronunciation: lo see-EN-toh.",[49,148,149],{},"Examples:",[129,151,152,158,164],{},[132,153,154,157],{},[125,155,156],{},"Lo siento mucho por tu perdida."," - I am very sorry for your loss.",[132,159,160,163],{},[125,161,162],{},"Lo siento, no quise hacerlo."," - I am sorry, I did not mean to do that.",[132,165,166,169],{},[125,167,168],{},"Lo siento, pero no puedo ayudar."," - I am sorry, but I cannot help.",[49,171,172],{},"Intensifiers:",[129,174,175,181,187],{},[132,176,177,180],{},[125,178,179],{},"Lo siento mucho"," - I am very sorry.",[132,182,183,186],{},[125,184,185],{},"Lo siento muchisimo"," - I am extremely sorry.",[132,188,189,192],{},[125,190,191],{},"Lo siento de verdad"," - I am truly sorry.",[53,194,101],{"id":195},"perdon-perdoname",[49,197,198,201],{},[125,199,200],{},"Perdon"," - literally \"pardon\" (noun). The standalone exclamation for minor mistakes, getting bumped, missing what someone said.",[49,203,204,207],{},[125,205,206],{},"Perdoname"," - \"Forgive me.\" The imperative verb form, used to ask for forgiveness for something specific.",[49,209,210,211,214],{},"Use ",[125,212,213],{},"perdon"," for:",[129,216,217,220,223,226],{},[132,218,219],{},"Bumping into someone in the street.",[132,221,222],{},"Asking \"what?\" politely when you missed what someone said.",[132,224,225],{},"Brief acknowledgement of a small mistake.",[132,227,228],{},"Asking past someone in a crowded space.",[49,230,210,231,214],{},[125,232,233],{},"perdoname",[129,235,236,239,242],{},[132,237,238],{},"Asking forgiveness for a specific wrong.",[132,240,241],{},"More heartfelt apology for a mistake.",[132,243,244],{},"Asking forgiveness for something serious between friends or family.",[49,246,149],{},[129,248,249,255,261,267],{},[132,250,251,254],{},[125,252,253],{},"Perdon!"," (bumping into someone) - Sorry!",[132,256,257,260],{},[125,258,259],{},"Perdon, no escuche bien."," - Sorry, I did not hear well.",[132,262,263,266],{},[125,264,265],{},"Perdoname por llegar tarde."," - Forgive me for arriving late.",[132,268,269,272],{},[125,270,271],{},"Perdoname, no fue mi intencion."," - Forgive me, it was not my intention.",[49,274,275,276,279],{},"The formal version is ",[125,277,278],{},"perdoneme"," (using the formal you \"usted\"):",[129,281,282],{},[132,283,284,287],{},[125,285,286],{},"Perdoneme, senor."," - Forgive me, sir.",[53,289,112],{"id":290},"disculpe-disculpa",[49,292,293,296,297,300],{},[125,294,295],{},"Disculpe"," (formal) \u002F ",[125,298,299],{},"Disculpa"," (informal) - literally \"excuse\" (imperative). Used for:",[129,302,303,306,309],{},[132,304,305],{},"Getting someone's attention politely",[132,307,308],{},"Excusing yourself for a minor matter",[132,310,311],{},"Politely interrupting",[49,313,314],{},"Pronunciation: dis-COOL-pay \u002F dis-COOL-pah.",[49,316,317],{},"Use disculpe \u002F disculpa for:",[129,319,320,323,326,329],{},[132,321,322],{},"Approaching a stranger to ask a question.",[132,324,325],{},"Calling a waiter at a restaurant.",[132,327,328],{},"Excusing yourself to leave a conversation.",[132,330,331],{},"Apologising mildly when interrupting.",[49,333,149],{},[129,335,336,342,348,354],{},[132,337,338,341],{},[125,339,340],{},"Disculpe, donde esta el bano?"," - Excuse me, where is the bathroom?",[132,343,344,347],{},[125,345,346],{},"Disculpe, podria ayudarme?"," - Excuse me, could you help me?",[132,349,350,353],{},[125,351,352],{},"Disculpa, te molesto?"," - Excuse me, am I bothering you?",[132,355,356,359],{},[125,357,358],{},"Disculpe la molestia."," - Excuse the inconvenience.",[49,361,362,363,366],{},"The ",[125,364,365],{},"disculpe \u002F lo siento"," distinction is important: disculpe is for getting attention or excusing yourself; lo siento is for genuine regret. Using lo siento to get a waiter's attention reads as oddly serious.",[53,368,370],{"id":369},"combining-the-phrases","Combining the phrases",[49,372,373],{},"In real spoken Spanish, native speakers often combine the apology phrases for emphasis:",[129,375,376,382,388],{},[132,377,378,381],{},[125,379,380],{},"Perdon, lo siento mucho."," - Sorry, I am really sorry.",[132,383,384,387],{},[125,385,386],{},"Disculpame, perdon."," - Excuse me, sorry.",[132,389,390,393],{},[125,391,392],{},"Lo siento, perdoname por favor."," - I am sorry, please forgive me.",[49,395,396],{},"The combinations are not redundant; they layer the regret intensity.",[53,398,400],{"id":399},"apologising-for-specific-situations","Apologising for specific situations",[402,403,405],"h3",{"id":404},"when-you-are-late","When you are late",[129,407,408,414,420],{},[132,409,410,413],{},[125,411,412],{},"Perdon por llegar tarde."," - Sorry for arriving late.",[132,415,416,419],{},[125,417,418],{},"Disculpa la tardanza."," - Excuse the lateness.",[132,421,422,425],{},[125,423,424],{},"Lo siento, hubo trafico."," - Sorry, there was traffic.",[402,427,429],{"id":428},"when-you-have-caused-inconvenience","When you have caused inconvenience",[129,431,432,438],{},[132,433,434,437],{},[125,435,436],{},"Disculpe las molestias."," - Excuse the inconvenience (formal).",[132,439,440,443],{},[125,441,442],{},"Lamento las molestias."," - I regret the inconvenience (formal).",[402,445,447],{"id":446},"when-you-have-made-an-error","When you have made an error",[129,449,450,456],{},[132,451,452,455],{},[125,453,454],{},"Perdon, fue un error."," - Sorry, it was a mistake.",[132,457,458,461],{},[125,459,460],{},"Mil disculpas."," - A thousand apologies (intensifier).",[402,463,465],{"id":464},"when-you-want-to-take-responsibility","When you want to take responsibility",[129,467,468,474],{},[132,469,470,473],{},[125,471,472],{},"Es mi culpa."," - It is my fault.",[132,475,476,479],{},[125,477,478],{},"Asumo la responsabilidad."," - I take responsibility.",[402,481,483],{"id":482},"when-you-are-giving-condolences","When you are giving condolences",[129,485,486,490,496],{},[132,487,488,157],{},[125,489,156],{},[132,491,492,495],{},[125,493,494],{},"Mis condolencias."," - My condolences.",[132,497,498,501],{},[125,499,500],{},"Te acompano en el sentimiento."," - I share in your feeling (formal condolence).",[53,503,505],{"id":504},"regional-variations","Regional variations",[402,507,509],{"id":508},"spain","Spain",[129,511,512,521,526,532],{},[132,513,514,517,518,520],{},[125,515,516],{},"Perdona"," (using the tu form) is more common than ",[125,519,233],{}," in casual contexts.",[132,522,523,525],{},[125,524,90],{}," is universal for genuine regret.",[132,527,528,531],{},[125,529,530],{},"Perdone"," is the formal \"perdona\" (using usted).",[132,533,534,535,538],{},"The phrase ",[125,536,537],{},"vale, perdona"," (\"okay, sorry\") is common as a casual brief apology.",[402,540,542],{"id":541},"mexico","Mexico",[129,544,545,550,556,561],{},[132,546,547,549],{},[125,548,200],{}," is universal.",[132,551,552,555],{},[125,553,554],{},"Disculpa \u002F Disculpe"," is used very frequently for getting attention.",[132,557,558,560],{},[125,559,179],{}," is the standard sympathy formula.",[132,562,534,563,566],{},[125,564,565],{},"me apena"," (it pains me) is sometimes used for sincere regret in Mexican Spanish.",[402,568,570],{"id":569},"argentina","Argentina",[129,572,573,582,586],{},[132,574,575,576,578,579,581],{},"The vos pronoun affects the verb form: ",[125,577,233],{}," uses tu form; the vos form would be ",[125,580,233],{}," in modern usage with stress on the second syllable.",[132,583,584,549],{},[125,585,90],{},[132,587,588,591],{},[125,589,590],{},"Mil disculpas"," is common as an intensified apology.",[402,593,595],{"id":594},"colombia","Colombia",[129,597,598,609],{},[132,599,600,601,604,605,608],{},"The frequent use of ",[125,602,603],{},"usted"," (including between friends) means ",[125,606,607],{},"disculpe"," is more common than in other regions.",[132,610,611,614],{},[125,612,613],{},"Que pena con usted!"," is a distinctively Colombian phrase meaning \"what a pity \u002F how sorry I am\" - used for mild apology in casual contexts.",[402,616,618],{"id":617},"caribbean-spanish-cuba-puerto-rico-dominican-republic","Caribbean Spanish (Cuba, Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic)",[129,620,621,626,631],{},[132,622,623,625],{},[125,624,200],{}," dominates casual usage.",[132,627,628,630],{},[125,629,90],{}," is standard for sympathy.",[132,632,633,634,636],{},"Less use of formal ",[125,635,607],{}," than in mainland Latin American Spanish.",[53,638,640],{"id":639},"the-cultural-register","The cultural register",[49,642,643],{},"Spanish-speaking cultures tend to apologise less frequently and less performatively than English-speaking cultures (particularly British English-speaking cultures). The English habit of saying \"sorry\" for very minor things (someone else bumping into you, asking a question, taking a moment to think) does not translate well into Spanish.",[49,645,646],{},"Native Spanish speakers:",[129,648,649,652,655,658],{},[132,650,651],{},"Apologise for genuine mistakes or genuine regret.",[132,653,654],{},"Use disculpe \u002F disculpa as a politeness marker without apologising.",[132,656,657],{},"Reserve lo siento for actual regret.",[132,659,660],{},"Do not over-apologise for minor friction.",[49,662,663],{},"For English-speaking learners: cut the reflexive \"sorry\"s when something is not genuinely your fault. The Spanish equivalent is to use disculpe (excuse me) rather than lo siento (I am sorry) where you are not actually at fault.",[53,665,667],{"id":666},"a-few-useful-related-phrases","A few useful related phrases",[61,669,670,680],{},[64,671,672],{},[67,673,674,677],{},[70,675,676],{},"Phrase",[70,678,679],{},"Meaning",[80,681,682,690,698,706,714,722,730],{},[67,683,684,687],{},[85,685,686],{},"No pasa nada",[85,688,689],{},"No problem (response to apology)",[67,691,692,695],{},[85,693,694],{},"No te preocupes",[85,696,697],{},"Do not worry",[67,699,700,703],{},[85,701,702],{},"No hay problema",[85,704,705],{},"No problem",[67,707,708,711],{},[85,709,710],{},"Esta bien",[85,712,713],{},"It is fine",[67,715,716,719],{},[85,717,718],{},"Te perdono",[85,720,721],{},"I forgive you",[67,723,724,727],{},[85,725,726],{},"Olvidalo",[85,728,729],{},"Forget it",[67,731,732,735],{},[85,733,734],{},"No fue nada",[85,736,737],{},"It was nothing",[53,739,741],{"id":740},"responding-when-someone-apologises-to-you","Responding when someone apologises to you",[61,743,744,757],{},[64,745,746],{},[67,747,748,751,754],{},[70,749,750],{},"Their apology",[70,752,753],{},"Your response",[70,755,756],{},"Translation",[80,758,759,767,775,783,791],{},[67,760,761,763,765],{},[85,762,90],{},[85,764,686],{},[85,766,705],{},[67,768,769,771,773],{},[85,770,200],{},[85,772,694],{},[85,774,697],{},[67,776,777,779,781],{},[85,778,299],{},[85,780,710],{},[85,782,713],{},[67,784,785,787,789],{},[85,786,590],{},[85,788,734],{},[85,790,737],{},[67,792,793,795,797],{},[85,794,206],{},[85,796,718],{},[85,798,721],{},[49,800,801,802,805,806,809,810,812],{},"The casual default response is ",[125,803,804],{},"no pasa nada"," or ",[125,807,808],{},"no te preocupes",". ",[125,811,718],{}," is reserved for actual forgiveness of something meaningful.",[53,814,816],{"id":815},"how-to-actually-internalise-these","How to actually internalise these",[49,818,819],{},"Three practical recommendations:",[821,822,823,829,835],"ol",{},[132,824,825,828],{},[125,826,827],{},"Match the apology to the situation."," Bumped into someone? Perdon. Getting attention? Disculpe. Genuinely regretful? Lo siento. Don't default to one for everything.",[132,830,831,834],{},[125,832,833],{},"Stop English-style over-apologising."," Native Spanish speakers apologise less frequently than British English speakers. Trying to translate every English \"sorry\" into Spanish reads as oddly anxious.",[132,836,837,840],{},[125,838,839],{},"Learn the formal-informal switch."," Disculpe (formal) vs disculpa (informal) and perdoname (informal) vs perdoneme (formal) signal register awareness. Pick the right form for the situation.",[53,842,844],{"id":843},"cross-references","Cross-references",[129,846,847,855,862,869,876],{},[132,848,362,849,854],{},[850,851,853],"a",{"href":852},"\u002Fspanish","Spanish for adult learners pillar"," covers the wider Spanish learning approach.",[132,856,362,857,861],{},[850,858,860],{"href":859},"\u002Fresources\u002Fhow-to-say-thank-you-in-spanish","how to say thank you in Spanish article"," covers the gratitude vocabulary that pairs with apologies.",[132,863,362,864,868],{},[850,865,867],{"href":866},"\u002Fresources\u002Fhow-to-say-hello-in-spanish","how to say hello in Spanish article"," covers the greeting register.",[132,870,362,871,875],{},[850,872,874],{"href":873},"\u002Fresources\u002Fcommon-mistakes-spanish-english-speakers","common mistakes for English speakers in Spanish article"," covers register and vocabulary gaps that frequently affect apology interactions.",[132,877,362,878,882],{},[850,879,881],{"href":880},"\u002Fspanish\u002Fgrammar","Spanish grammar cheatsheet"," covers the imperative forms underlying perdoname \u002F disculpe.",{"title":884,"searchDepth":885,"depth":885,"links":886},"",2,[887,888,889,890,891,892,900,907,908,909,910,911],{"id":55,"depth":885,"text":56},{"id":121,"depth":885,"text":90},{"id":195,"depth":885,"text":101},{"id":290,"depth":885,"text":112},{"id":369,"depth":885,"text":370},{"id":399,"depth":885,"text":400,"children":893},[894,896,897,898,899],{"id":404,"depth":895,"text":405},3,{"id":428,"depth":895,"text":429},{"id":446,"depth":895,"text":447},{"id":464,"depth":895,"text":465},{"id":482,"depth":895,"text":483},{"id":504,"depth":885,"text":505,"children":901},[902,903,904,905,906],{"id":508,"depth":895,"text":509},{"id":541,"depth":895,"text":542},{"id":569,"depth":895,"text":570},{"id":594,"depth":895,"text":595},{"id":617,"depth":895,"text":618},{"id":639,"depth":885,"text":640},{"id":666,"depth":885,"text":667},{"id":740,"depth":885,"text":741},{"id":815,"depth":885,"text":816},{"id":843,"depth":885,"text":844},"Methodology",null,"2026-06-05T00:00:00+00:00","How to say sorry in Spanish across registers and contexts. Lo siento, perdon, disculpe, the situational differences, and regional variations across Spain and Latin America.","md",[918,921,924,927],{"q":919,"a":920},"When should I use lo siento, perdon or disculpe?","Lo siento for genuine regret, condolences, refusing something with regret, or apologising for something significant. Perdon for brief minor mistakes, bumping into someone, missing what was said, or asking past in a crowd. Disculpe (formal) or disculpa (informal) for getting attention, politely interrupting, or excusing yourself. Defaulting to lo siento for every situation is the consistent English-speaker mistake.",{"q":922,"a":923},"Is it rude to say sorry too often in Spanish?","Not rude but noticeably non-native. Spanish-speaking cultures, especially Spain and most of Latin America, apologise less reflexively than British English-speaking cultures. The English habit of saying sorry to acknowledge minor friction, ask a question or take a moment to think does not translate proportionally. British learners often over-apologise and the result reads as anxious rather than polite.",{"q":925,"a":926},"What is the difference between disculpe and disculpa?","Usted vs tu. Disculpe is the formal version used with strangers, in business contexts, with anyone older you have just met, and in plural contexts. Disculpa is the informal version reserved for friends, family, peers and children. The usted \u002F tu distinction that runs through Spanish politeness applies. In Spain disculpa is more common because tu dominates casual contexts; in Colombia and parts of Central America disculpe is more common because usted is more widely used.",{"q":928,"a":929},"What do you say when someone apologises to you in Spanish?","No pasa nada (no problem, literally nothing is happening) is the universal everyday response. No te preocupes (do not worry) is the casual warm alternative. No hay problema works too. For a substantial apology where you actually do forgive something serious, te perdono (I forgive you) is reserved for the genuinely-forgive-something cases and lands heavy if used for routine friction.",{},"\u002Fresources\u002Fspanish\u002Fhow-to-say-sorry-in-spanish",{"title":37,"description":915},"resources\u002Fspanish\u002Fhow-to-say-sorry-in-spanish",[935,936,937,938],"spanish phrases","spanish vocabulary","spanish for beginners","apology","Spanish splits sorry across three phrases English collapses into one: lo siento for genuine regret, perdon for minor mistakes and bumps, disculpe for getting attention or excusing yourself; defaulting to lo siento for everything is the consistent learner mistake and reads as oddly serious.","XEPS_CBOpWfqmfr5Bj3g_4Lbq_zfU8Yj0iBWL5SOGSE",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":942},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Ccircle cx=\"12\" cy=\"12\" r=\"4\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"M12 2v2m0 16v2M4.93 4.93l1.41 1.41m11.32 11.32l1.41 1.41M2 12h2m16 0h2M6.34 17.66l-1.41 1.41M19.07 4.93l-1.41 1.41\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":944},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M12 15V3m9 12v4a2 2 0 0 1-2 2H5a2 2 0 0 1-2-2v-4\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m7 10l5 5l5-5\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":946},"\u003Cpath fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\" d=\"M13 21h8M15 5l4 4m2.174-2.188a1 1 0 0 0-3.986-3.987L3.842 16.174a2 2 0 0 0-.5.83l-1.321 4.352a.5.5 0 0 0 .623.622l4.353-1.32a2 2 0 0 0 .83-.497z\"\u002F>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":948},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Crect width=\"18\" height=\"18\" x=\"3\" y=\"3\" rx=\"2\" ry=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Ccircle cx=\"9\" cy=\"9\" r=\"2\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"m21 15l-3.086-3.086a2 2 0 0 0-2.828 0L6 21\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",{"left":4,"top":4,"width":5,"height":5,"rotate":4,"vFlip":6,"hFlip":6,"body":950},"\u003Cg fill=\"none\" stroke=\"currentColor\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\" stroke-width=\"2\">\u003Cpath d=\"M6 22a2 2 0 0 1-2-2V4a2 2 0 0 1 2-2h8a2.4 2.4 0 0 1 1.704.706l3.588 3.588A2.4 2.4 0 0 1 20 8v12a2 2 0 0 1-2 2z\"\u002F>\u003Cpath d=\"M14 2v5a1 1 0 0 0 1 1h5M10 9H8m8 4H8m8 4H8\"\u002F>\u003C\u002Fg>",1781519467033]