German · Chapter 4 · Lesson 21 · Themed review
Mutter, Vater, Kind
Family and the people around you. Several of these words do two jobs at once, and one of them has a grammatical gender that surprises everybody.
Practise this lesson
20-word session
A quick mix of exercises - recognise, recall, type and build each word. Miss one and it comes back round until it sticks.
Worth knowing
Mutter, Vater, Kind: family and the people around you
The German family words look friendly. , , , , , and are close enough to English that you have probably guessed them already, and Mama, Papa and Baby need no guessing at all. The difficulty is elsewhere: in the words that mean two things, and in one that has the wrong gender.
Words doing two jobs
is man, and it is also husband. is woman, and also wife, and also the title Mrs or Ms. So is my wife, and Schmidt is how you address Ms Schmidt at work. German does not see a problem here, and after a while neither will you.
is friend, and also boyfriend. is friend, and also girlfriend. is ambiguous in a way that causes real confusion at parties. Germans who want to be clear say , a friend of mine, which rules out the romantic reading.
The girl who is not feminine
is girl, and it is neuter: . This is not an opinion about girls. Every noun ending in -chen is neuter, because -chen makes a thing small, and the grammar follows the ending rather than the person. Learn the article with the noun and the question never comes up.
is boy, and Kind is child, also neuter, which at least has the virtue of being consistent.
People in general
is a human being, a person, with no gender implied. It is also an exclamation of frustration: ! is roughly oh, for heaven's sake.
means people and exists only in the plural. There is no singular. The same is true of , parents: you cannot have one Elter in normal German, only a or a .
Why these come as a set
Family words are where a learner first needs possessives: , , . The ending on changes with the gender and number of the person, not with you. Drill this group together and the possessive endings arrive for free, because you will say them about real people you know, which is how grammar actually sticks.