Spanish · Chapter 13 · Lesson 23 · Themed review
Los sentimientos
Love, fear and everything between. querer is both to want and to love, which tells you something about Spanish.
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15-word session
A quick mix of exercises - recognise, recall, type and build each word. Miss one and it comes back round until it sticks.
Worth knowing
querer means to want and to love, which tells you something
means to want. It also means to love. is the ordinary, everyday I love you, said to partners, parents, children and close friends.
is the stronger word, and it is rarer than English love by a long way. belongs to romantic love and to song lyrics. Said to a friend it is either a joke or a declaration, and both are awkward.
The safe rule: if English would say I love you and mean it warmly rather than dramatically, Spanish says .
The verbs that put you second
behaves like : me is literally it enchants me. So does : me is it worries me, with the thing doing the worrying as the subject.
Then Spanish offers the reflexive versions, and they mean something subtly different. Me is the exam worries me. Me is I worry about the exam. The first happens to you; the second is something you do. English has to say the whole thing out loud to make that distinction.
esperar is three verbs at once
is to wait, to hope and to expect. is I am waiting for you. is I hope so. is I hope he comes, and takes the subjunctive, which is the clue that hope rather than expectation is meant.
There is no reliable way to tell them apart except context, and Spanish speakers do not experience it as ambiguous at all.
miedo is a thing you have
, to have fear. Not to be afraid. This is the same pattern as and , and it is one of the most reliable structures in the language: Spanish puts a surprising number of internal states inside .
is the verb, and it is more formal and much less common. Use and you will sound like a person rather than a subtitle.
Words in this theme
querer/keˈɾeɾ/to want, to love
amar/aˈmaɾ/to love
el amor/aˈmoɾ/love
el cariño/kaˈɾiɲo/affection, love, darling
encantar/eŋkanˈtaɾ/to delight, to love (something)
feliz/feˈliθ/happy, glad
triste/ˈtɾiste/sad, gloomy, unhappy
el odio/ˈoðjo/hatred, hate
el miedo/ˈmjeðo/fear, fright
temer/teˈmeɾ/to fear, to be afraid of
esperar/espeˈɾaɾ/to wait, to hope, to expect
preocupar/pɾeokuˈpaɾ/to worry, to concern
preocuparse/pɾeokuˈpaɾse/to worry, to get worried
tranquilo/tɾaŋˈkilo/calm, quiet, peaceful
llorar/ʎoˈɾaɾ/to cry, to weep