Spanish Reciprocal Verbs: How to Say Each Other
By Michael McGettrick and Sergio Linares-HernandesUpdated 12 October 2026
Spanish has no word for "each other". It uses , or with a plural subject:
Quick check
Three quick questions on what you have just read. The full practice is further down.
Pick the right one
0/3Choose the pronoun that matches the subject.
Ellos quieren mucho.
Nosotros vemos mañana.
¿Vosotros conocéis?
.- We help each other..- They love each other.
Reciprocal verbs at a glance
The pronoun matches the subject, and the subject is plural, because it takes two:
| Subject | Pronoun | Example |
|---|---|---|
| . See you tomorrow. | |
| ¿ ? Do you know each other? | |
| , | | . They love each other a lot. |
These are the plural pronouns of reflexive verbs, doing a second job. is literally "we see each other", which is why it means "see you".
A singular subject works when it means a group: . (The couple love each other.)
The verbs that go reciprocal
Most verbs that take a person as their object (direct or indirect) can go reciprocal, and the verbs of meeting, talking and feeling do it all the time:
| Verb | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
. | They met at school. | |
. | See you on Monday. | |
. | The neighbours help each other. | |
. | We write to each other every week. | |
. | We call each other every day. | |
. | We understand each other without words. | |
. | They kissed at the door. | |
. | They' always fighting. | |
. | They don't speak to each other any more. |
Take care with : . is "they call each other every day", but Ana Pedro. is "they' called Ana and Pedro". The rest of the sentence decides.
Each other or themselves?
The same plural pronoun also means "themselves". Usually the verb or the scene settles it:
| Reading | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
| themselves | . | They look at themselves in the mirror. |
| each other | . | They look at each other and laugh. |
| themselves | . | The children wash their hands. |
| each other | . | They love each other a lot. |
When both readings would fit, add a few words. forces "each other"; a sí forces "themselves":
.- They deceive each other.sí .- They deceive themselves.
El uno al otro: making it clear
agrees with the people. Two men, or a man and a woman, take the masculine; two women the feminine; more than two the plural:
| Who | Phrase | Example |
|---|---|---|
| two, masc./mixed | | . |
| two women | | . |
| a group | | . |
| a group of women | | . |
The little a follows the verb's own preposition. (laugh at) gives :
.- They laugh at each other.
Mutuamente (mutually) is the one-word version: mutuamente. (They respect each other.)
Mistakes English speakers make
| Wrong | Right | Why |
|---|---|---|
| already says each other | |
| the verb agrees with | |
| takes | |
| two women: all feminine |
What to do next
- Say three things you and a friend do for each other: , , .
- Do the story and the sort drill below.
- Then the infinitive as a noun:
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