English Filler Words: um, well, so, like, you know
By Michael McGettrickUpdated 21 October 2026
Filler words are the small words of speech: um, well, so, like, you know. Take them out and the sentence is still right. Leave them all out and you sound like a robot. They do , and each job has its own words.
Quick check
Three quick questions on what you have just read. The full practice is further down.
Pick the right one
0/3Tap the word that fits.
What is her name? - ... I do not remember.
We are all here. , who wants a coffee?
It was a good film. , the end was bad, but it was good.
The whole set on one screen
| Job | Words |
|---|---|
| , , , , , | |
| , , , , | |
| , , | |
| listener | ?, ?, ? |
| softer | , , , |
You do not need all of them. Learn and you can follow most everyday talk.
- ... , .
- , ?
The waiter starts with So. The woman needs a moment: Um... a tea, please.
Time to think: um, uh, well
These words say: , . They keep your turn, so the other person does not start to talk.
| Word | Example | Note |
|---|---|---|
... . | ||
, , . | ||
... , . | , | |
. . | , | |
... . | , sum |
One well-known study of real speech (Clark and Fox Tree, 2002) found that speakers say uh before a short wait and um before a longer one.
also buys time, but it says more: .
? - , .- not really.? - , .- yes, it is far.
Start or move on: so, okay, right, anyway
These words open a turn, or close one subject and start the next.
| Word | Example | Job |
|---|---|---|
, ? | ||
, . | , | |
, ? | , | |
, . | ||
, . |
So is the big one. In speech it often starts a story or a question, with no for that reason meaning at all:
, , ?Anyway closes the subject. , . is a polite
way to end a phone call. Small words like anyway and by the way have their
own page: discourse markers.
Say it better: I mean, actually
You said it wrong, or not quite right. These words .
. , , .. , , ., .- here is the short story.
I mean is about words. To check what the other person said,
ask a question: ?
Check the listener: you know?, right?
At the end of a sentence, these are . They ask: are you with me? You do not need to answer. A nod or yeah is enough.
, ?, ?- I think so. Am I right?
You know can also sit in the middle while you look for a word:
, , .Make it softer: kind of, sort of, like
These words make the next word , .
| Word | Example | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
. | ||
. | ||
. | ||
, , . | , |
Kind of and sort of mean the same. Kind of is more American; British speakers say both, and sort of a little more.
has one more job: after be, it says what someone said or
thought. , ! means: she said no, or she
thought no. It is speech only: never write it in an essay.
How many is too many?
One or two in a sentence sounds natural. One in every few words sounds nervous, or very young.
- It was good.
- Well, it was good.
- So, um, it was, like, you know, good.
The first sounds cold; the last sounds lost. Aim for the middle. In a job interview or a talk, a short silence is better than a long uhhhh.
Mistakes learners make
| Wrong | Right | Why |
|---|---|---|
| kind a cold | kind of cold | . |
| You mean (mine) | I mean, it was good. | . |
| Actually for now | at the moment | . |
| like in an essay | filler | . |
| um in every sentence | . |
What to do next
- Pick one word for each job: um, so, I mean, you know, kind of.
- Listen for them in a film or a song.
- Do the drills below.