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(shī péi) - excuse me, I must be going in Mandarin

shīpéi

Traditional: 失陪

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Translation

excuse me, I must be going

Word origin

A polite set compound of 失 (shī, to lose, to fail in) and 陪 (péi, to accompany), so literally to fail in keeping you company.

Origin
compound
Root
失 (shī, to fail in) + 陪 (péi, to accompany)

Stroke order

Stroke order for 失

Stroke order for 陪

Examples

Excuse me a moment, I need to take a call.

Sorry, I have to leave you.

Everyone, I must excuse myself.

He made his excuses and left.

It is getting late, I must be off.

失陪 (shī péi) is the formula for leaving company politely. You say it as you get up from a table, step out of a meeting or end a conversation, and it apologises for the leaving rather than for anything you have done.

It usually comes with a softener: 失陪一下 for a short absence you will return from, 我先失陪 for going ahead of the others, 我失陪了 for leaving properly. On its own it is fine but abrupt.

The trap is register. This is a courteous, slightly formal expression, so it fits a business dinner or a host you barely know, and sounds theatrical among close friends, who would simply say 我先走了. Do not use it as a general sorry either: it only ever means I am leaving your company, never I apologise.

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This word is part of lesson 49.