This, That, These and Those: How to Point at Things in English
English has four pointing words: this, that, these and those. You use them to show which thing you mean. They answer the question "which one?" without a name: this man, that thing, these times, those ways.
The good news: the whole system is one small table. You only need to answer two questions.
Question one: near or far?
Is the thing near you, or far from you?
- : use this or these. This thing is the thing in your hand.
- : use that or those. That man is the man over there.
"Near" and "far" also work for time. This week means the week you are in now. That day means a day away from now, usually in the past. Those times means times that are over.
That has one more use. It points back at something you both know about. If someone tells you a thing, you can say: that is good. The thing is not in the room, but it is "there" in the talk.
Question two: one or many?
Is it one thing, or more than one?
- : use this or that. This man. That way.
- : use these or those. These men. Those ways.
The noun and the pointing word must match. Things is plural, so it takes these or those, never this or that. This is the mistake learners make most: this things is always wrong.
The table
Put the two questions together and you get all four words:
| One | Many | |
|---|---|---|
Read it out loud: this thing, these things, that thing, those things. Say it a few times. The pattern is small enough to learn as a sound, not a rule.
With a noun or alone
The four words can stand in front of a noun (this way, those men) or stand alone, when you both know what you mean:
- I like this. (the thing here)
- Who is that? (the person there)
- These are for you. (the things here)
- Those were good times. (the times back then)
The word does not change. Only the noun goes away.
How to practise
Do the three drills below. The first gives you the cue in brackets. The second tests one against many. The third puts the words into real sentences, where the words around the gap tell you near or far. When you can do all three fast, the choice is a reflex - and that is the goal.