Mandarin · Chapter 12 · Lesson 21 · Themed review
Feelings
Happy, afraid, angry and in love. xi3-huan0 is the one you will use most - liking something is the everyday version of all of these.
Practise this lesson
17-word session
A quick mix of exercises - recognise, recall, type and build each word. Miss one and it comes back round until it sticks.
Worth knowing
The heart character runs through half of Mandarin's emotions
心 (xīn) is the heart. It is also the mind, and Chinese has never separated the two the way English does since Descartes.
Once you can spot it, a whole family of words opens up. 开心 (kāi xīn) is happy: an opened heart. 担心 (dān xīn) is to worry: a carried heart. 小心 is careful, a small heart. The character is doing consistent metaphorical work, and it is the single most useful component to recognise at this stage.
The many ways to be happy
Mandarin has four common words where English mostly has one, and they are not interchangeable.
高兴 (gāo xìng) is pleased, in the moment. It is what you say on meeting someone.
开心 (kāi xīn) is cheerful, having a good time. Lighter and more colloquial.
快乐 (kuài lè) is happy in the greeting sense: 生日快乐 is happy birthday. It appears in wishes far more than in descriptions.
幸福 (xìng fú) is deep contentment, the happiness of a life rather than an afternoon. Using it about a nice lunch would be strange.
喜欢 does most of the work
喜欢 (xǐ huān) is to like, and it is the verb you will use constantly. It covers liking a thing, liking a person, and enjoying doing something.
爱 (ài) is to love, and Mandarin uses it more sparingly than English does. 我爱你 (wǒ ài nǐ) is a serious statement, not a sign-off. Among family and friends it is said far less often than English love you, and its weight is correspondingly greater.
Anger is generated
生气 (shēng qì) is to get angry, and it is literally to produce 气 (qì) - breath, air, vital energy. Anger is something you generate rather than something you are.
That is the same instinct behind 客气 (polite, guest-energy) and a dozen other compounds. 气 is the second component worth learning to spot, after 心.
讨厌 (tǎo yàn) is to dislike or find annoying, and it is much commoner than 恨 (hèn), to hate, which in Mandarin as in English is a strong word.
Words in this theme
感觉gǎn juéfeeling, sense, to feel
喜欢xǐ huanto like, to enjoy
爱àito love, love
我爱你wǒ ài nǐI love you
高兴gāo xìnghappy, glad, pleased
开心kāi xīnhappy, joyful, delighted
快乐kuài lèhappy, joyful
幸福xìng fúhappiness, happy, blessed
希望xī wàngto hope, to wish, hope
担心dān xīnto worry, to be concerned
害怕hài pàto be afraid, to fear, to be scared
怕pàto fear, to be afraid of
生气shēng qìangry, get angry
讨厌tǎo yànto dislike, to hate; annoying, disgusting
恨hènto hate
笑xiàoto laugh, to smile
哭kūto cry, to weep