Esperanto grammar Part of Chapter 18

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Esperanto Letter Writing: Register and Politeness

By Michael McGettrickUpdated 12 October 2026

Esperanto has one , for a friend, a stranger and a crowd. Politeness moved to three other places: how you open a letter, how you close it, and how you ask.

plural -jadverb ending -e-u (plain request)-us (softened)What do the colours mean?
LayerFriendlyFormal
Opening Maria, ,
Closing, ,
Request . ?
Group , ,

Quick check

Now use it: three quick questions on the chart above. The full practice is further down.

Pick the right one

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Which opening fits the reader?

  1. (a group of friends)

  2. (a woman you have never met, formal)

  3. (a ceremonial open letter to a congress president)

There is little of a posh second vocabulary to climb into either: Esperanto has where English has start and commence. Register lives mostly in the construction, not the words.

One vi for everyone

French makes you choose tu or vous, German or Sie. Esperanto has , for one person or many, close or distant:

  • . - You are my best friend.
  • , ? - Would you kindly reply, madam?
On a lawn, a woman with long hair and a bow, a speech bubble above her, gestures towards three others: a young man of her age waving (a friend); an elderly woman with a white bun, glasses and a walking stick (an older stranger); and a group of three: a man with a moustache, a woman and a little girl.

Mi (I), the woman speaking; vi (you) to her friend; vi to the older stranger; vi to the family. One word for all three.

The Fundamento's dictionary also has , a familiar singular thou, with as the object and for thy. Almost nobody uses it: Zamenhof himself wrote to everyone, and usage followed him. You will meet in some translated novels and in . Recognise it, and write .

The salutation ladder

plural -jWhat do the colours mean?

The opening places you on a ladder from warm to ceremonial:

WarmCeremonial
  1. Kara Maria,a friend
  2. Saluton!neutral, email
  3. Estimata sinjoro,a stranger, an official
  4. Altestimata sinjoro,ceremony
OpeningFor
Maria,a friend; also usual between Esperantists
!most emails: friendly, claims no rung
,a stranger, an official, a complaint
,a head of state, a ceremonial open letter

(dear) and (esteemed) are adjectives, so they agree with a plural:

  • , - Dear friends,
  • , - Dear ladies and gentlemen (to a mixed group),

(highly esteemed) is for real ceremony; to an ordinary reader it can sound ironic. Between Esperantists you will also meet (dear fellow Esperantist, literally same-idea person), friendly and a little old-fashioned.

The closings

adverb ending -eWhat do the colours mean?

Three of the closings are adverbs: a root plus -e, as in adverbs.

ClosingEnglishFor
,in friendshipfriends, fellow learners
,warmly, cordiallywarm, not intimate
,sincerelythe safe middle
,with esteemformal letters
!see you soonshort, friendly notes

Match the ends. The opening and the closing sit on the same rung:

Opens withCloses with
or
!!

A letter that opens with and ends with ! reads as a joke.

A letter, top to bottom

-u (plain request)-us (softened)What do the colours mean?

The same message in two registers, line by line:

PartFormalFriendly
Opening , Maria,
Thanks . !
Request . !
Closing ,,
NamePetro SmithPetro

A formal letter may carry a date line, place first: Londono, 5- 2026. The day usually takes the time -n, though 5-a is also seen; see time expressions. Most emails leave it out.

Asking in a letter

-u (plain request)-us (softened)What do the colours mean?

The request is where register does most of its work. The forms are in conditional and commands; in a letter they line up like this:

BluntMost polite
  1. Skribu al mi.write to me
  2. Skribu al mi, mi petas.write to me, please
  3. Bonvolu skribi al mi.please write to me
  4. Ĉu vi povus skribi al mi?could you write to me?
  5. Ĉu vi bonvolus skribi al mi?would you kindly write?
Use it forEsperantoEnglish
friends .Write to me.
anyone .Please write to me.
a favour ?Could you write to me?
a polite wish .I would like to know your name.

is itself a -u form: is to be so kind as to, and an infinitive follows it. If you learn one form from this page, learn that one.

Korespondado: letters kept the language going

For much of its first century, many Esperantists used the language largely by post. Zamenhof's printed o, whose first series appeared in 1889-1890, listed the names and addresses of people who had learned the language, so that they could find each other and write.

  • Japanio. - I correspond with a friend in Japan.

That is why a language with few native speakers has such a settled letter etiquette. Today the same habits run by email, and the default rung is low: first names at once, ! even from officials. When unsure, be one notch warmer than you would be at home.

Mistakes English speakers make

WrongRightWhy
oj, oj, agrees: -j
takes an infinitive
? ?-us on , infinitive after it

What to do next

  1. Write a five-line email to a club you would like to join: !, one question with , .
  2. Rewrite it for a stranger: , , .
  3. Then read Esperanto hodiaŭ for where the correspondents are now.

See also

Practise: test yourself

Sort into groups

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Who would you write this to?

Tap a word, then the group it belongs in.

Pick the right one

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Which opening fits the reader?

  1. (a group of friends)

  2. (a woman you have never met, formal)

  3. (a ceremonial open letter to a congress president)

  4. (a quick email to someone you met once at the club)

Complete the story

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Choose the formal form for each gap.

A letter to a school

sinjorino, mi dankas vin pro via letero. sendi al mi la informojn pri la kurso. Ĉu vi ankaŭ diri al mi la prezon? estimo, Petro

Gap 1 of 4

Spot the mistake

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Each line has one wrong word. Tap it.

Pick the right one

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Same request, different register. Which one fits?

  1. (Please send me the book: to a stranger)

  2. (Could you help me? asking a favour)

  3. (I would like to know your name: polite)

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Frequently asked questions

Does Esperanto have a formal and informal you?
No. covers one person and several, your oldest friend and a stranger. The register is carried by the opening ( against ), the closing ( against ) and the shape of a request ( against ). The sentence does the work the pronoun does in French or German.
What is in Esperanto and should I use it?
is a familiar singular you, like thou. It is in the , and almost nobody uses it: Zamenhof himself wrote to everyone, and usage followed him. You will meet it in some translated novels and in . Learn to recognise , and its possessive, then write .
How do you start a formal letter in Esperanto?
or , then a comma, with the body on the next line. is an adjective (esteemed), so it agrees: oj to a mixed group. Close the same letter with . To a friend, open with and close with or .
What is the difference between and ?
is the plain -u command: write. Between friends it is normal; to a stranger it reads as an instruction. (be so kind as to write) turns it into a request for the price of one word. ? (could you write?) asks a favour, and adding to a bare command softens it informally.
How do you sign off an email in Esperanto?
To a friend: (in friendship), (warmly) or ! (see you). In a neutral message, (sincerely) is safe. In a formal letter, (with esteem), the closing that answers an opening. Put your name on the next line.