Dimmi or Mi dica: Pronouns With the Italian Imperative
By Michael McGettrickUpdated 11 October 2026
Where the pronoun goes in a command tells you the register. To a friend, it sticks to the end of the verb: , tell me. To a stranger, it stands in front: . The forms themselves are on the Italian imperative.
Quick check
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| Command | To a friend | To a stranger |
|---|---|---|
| look at me | ! | ! |
| tell me | . | . |
| excuse me | . | . |
| don't worry | . | . |
Tu, noi, voi: the pronoun attaches
With an informal command, the object pronoun joins the end of the verb and the two become one word:
| Italian | English |
|---|---|
! | Call me! |
! | Wait for me! |
! | Take it! ( ) |
! | Look at me! () |
Prendiamolo! | Let's take it! |
The stress stays where it was on the verb: guàrda, guàrdami. That is why the long word sounds stressed so early.
The short forms double the consonant
After ', ', , and , the first consonant of the pronoun doubles. It is compulsory, and it is one of the most characteristic sounds of spoken Italian:
| Short form | With mi | English |
|---|---|---|
' | . | Tell me. |
' | . | Give me. |
| . | Let me. Make me. |
.- Tell me the truth..- Give me the key..- Let me see.!- Go away! (++)
is the one pronoun that never doubles: . Tell him the truth.
is plus an infinitive, make me see, which is how Italian says let me see. The same shape gives , let me know.
Lei: the pronoun goes in front
The polite command does the opposite. The pronoun stands in front as a separate word, as it would with an ordinary verb:
| Italian | English |
|---|---|
. | How can I help? (tell me) |
. | Excuse me. |
. | Do it. |
... | Give me... (ordering, polite) |
So tell me is to a friend and to a stranger. The word order marks the register as clearly as the ending does.
Negative commands: either side
With a negative command, which is plus the infinitive, the pronoun may go in front or attach to the infinitive. Both are correct:
./.- Don't worry../.- Don't do it.
The infinitive drops its final e when the pronoun attaches: becomes .
With , the pronoun stays in front: . Don't worry. . Don't do it.
Mistakes English speakers make
| Wrong | Right | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Dimi. | . | the consonant doubles |
| Dicami. | . | puts the pronoun in front |
| ! (friend) | ! | attaches the pronoun |
| Diglli. | . | never doubles |
| preoccupareti | | the infinitive drops its e |
What to do next
plus an infinitive, as in Fammi , is on the Pearson Edexcel GCSE Italian specification at Higher tier.
- Say
andaloud, and imagine who you are speaking to. - Learn
andas whole phrases. - Go back to the Italian imperative for the forms themselves.