Say something today: greetings and courtesies

You can hold your first Mandarin exchange before you have learned a single character or a single point of grammar. Greetings and courtesies are fixed phrases: learn the dozen below as whole things to say, in pinyin, and you can greet a real Mandarin speaker this afternoon.

Greetings

你好 (nǐ hǎo) is the one to learn first: any time of day, a new acquaintance or a total stranger, a shop or a street. Say it ní hǎo: when two third tones meet, the first one rises (the four tones has the rule).

Mandarin has a respectful you, 您 (nín), and swapping it in is the easiest courtesy in the language. The colours below mark the plain and the polite you:

The last row is a pattern worth knowing: a title plus 好 (hǎo) greets someone by their role, the way a class greets its teacher: 老lǎo师shī好hǎo！ (Lǎoshī hǎo!) - Hello, teacher!

There are greetings for the time of day too, though plain 你好 (nǐ hǎo) works at any hour:

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1. 1早zǎo上shang好hǎo
2. 2你nǐ好hǎo
3. 3晚wǎn上shang好hǎo
4. 4晚wǎn安ān

Morning, midday, evening, bedtime. 你好 nǐ hǎo covers midday and every other hour; 晚安 wǎn’ān is only for going to bed or parting late at night.

晚安 (wǎn'ān) is good night: said at bedtime, or when you part late at night, never as a daytime goodbye. 晚上好 (wǎnshang hǎo) is real but a touch formal, the greeting of a host or a hotel desk; friends just say 你好.

For every ordinary parting, 再见 (zàijiàn) is the standard goodbye, literally "again see": 明míng天tiān见jiàn！ (Míngtiān jiàn!) - See you tomorrow! The other ways to say hello are in how to say hello in Mandarin, and the other goodbyes in how to say goodbye in Mandarin.

Courtesies

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1. 1谢xiè谢xie！
2. 2不bú客kè气qi！

The customer pays and says 谢谢 xièxie; the baker answers 不客气 bú kèqi.

请 (qǐng) goes at the front of the request, the way a waiter says 请qǐng坐zuò。 (Qǐng zuò.) - Please sit down. 不客气 is roughly "don't be polite", and 没关系 is literally "no connection".

The two apologies differ in weight:

• 不bù好hǎo意yì思si，我wǒ听tīng不bù懂dǒng。 (Bù hǎoyìsi, wǒ tīng bu dǒng.) - Sorry, I don't understand.
• 对duì不bu起qǐ！ (Duìbuqǐ!) - I'm so sorry! (you trod on a foot)

To get a stranger's attention before a question, 请问 (qǐngwèn, may I ask) is the polite opener. More ways to thank are in how to say thank you in Mandarin.