Ch 1 · Lesson 19

Ты or вы: the choice you make before you speak

for one person you know well, for a stranger, anyone older, or more than one. And takes the plural verb, even to one person.

The short version

Choose ty or vy before you speak

, ? (Vy znaete, gde metro?)

Do you know where the metro is?
Why?

Ty is you to one person you know well: a friend, a child, family. Vy is you to a stranger, anyone older or senior, or more than one person. Calling a stranger ty is rude in a way English has lost, so default to vy until someone suggests ty. And vy always takes the plural verb, even to one person.

Ты and вы: the choice you make before you speak

is for one person you are close to. is for more than one person, and also for any single person you should be polite to.

Ты (friendly)Вы (polite)
a frienda stranger, a shop assistant
a childa teacher, a doctor
your familyanyone older or senior
a pettwo or more people

The verb changes with it. always takes the plural form, even when you are talking to one person:

  • ? - Do you know? (to a friend)
  • ? - Do you know? (to a stranger, or to two friends)
  • ? - What's your name? (to a child)
  • ? - What's your name? (polite)
On a lawn, a woman with long hair and a bow, a speech bubble above her, gestures towards three others: a young man of her age waving (a friend); an elderly woman with a white bun, glasses and a walking stick (an older stranger); and a group of three: a man with a moustache, a woman and a little girl.
  1. ?
  2. ?
  3. ?

The woman on the left is asking. Her friend gets ты; the older stranger gets вы, and so does the group, with the same plural verb.

This is not optional politeness. Calling a stranger in Russian is rude in a way English has no equivalent for, since English lost its thou centuries ago. Default to until someone invites you to switch:

  • . - Let's say to each other.

Going further: The eight pronouns and the rest of the guide, when you want them. This lesson does not need them.

Read the full guide (optional) · 3 min read

Practice

Practise this lesson

8-question session

One question at a time, mixed across the exercises in this lesson. Miss one and it comes back round before the end.

Russian · Free printables

Worksheets for this lesson

Worksheets with answer keys built in. Open any one to view, print or save.

Lesson 19 of 43 in this chapter

Back to the curriculum

What do the colours mean?