Spanish False Friends (Part 2): molestar, soportar
By Michael McGettrick and Sergio Linares-HernandesUpdated 12 October 2026
The second set of false friends is mostly verbs, which makes them harder to catch: the sentence comes out grammatical and means something else.
Quick check
Three quick questions on what you have just read. The full practice is further down.
Pick the right one
0/3Choose the word that says what the English means.
No el ruido. (I can't stand)
Te en tu decisión. (I support you)
Voy a el concierto. (to record)
.- I don't want to be a bother..- I can't stand the noise.
False friends at a glance
| Spanish | Means | You wanted |
|---|---|---|
| to bother | to molest: abusar |
| to put up with | to support: |
| to remember | to record: |
| to intend | to pretend: |
| to serve | to attend: |
| to argue | to discuss: |
| school | college: |
| relative | parents: |
| countryside | camp: |
| funny | gracious: |
| school subject | signature: |
| lately | ultimately: |
| not at all | absolutely: |
Molestar: the one that sounds like a crime
is to bother or disturb. It is an everyday, polite verb:
.- I don't want to be a bother.¿ ?- Do you mind if I open the window?.- Stop bothering your sister.
It also works like , with the thing that bothers after the verb and the person bothered as the indirect object:
.- The noise bothers me.
Soportar, recordar, pretender, atender
Each of these is a real verb with a different job. Here is what each one does, and what you say instead:
| Verb | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
. | I can't stand the noise. | |
. | I support you in your decision. | |
. | He/she supports the family. | |
¿ ? | Do you remember his/her name? | |
. | I'm going to record the concert. | |
¿ ? | What are you after with that? | |
. | He pretended to be ill. | |
. | The waitress looked after us. | |
| a | . | I went to the wedding. |
also means to remind, with the person as the indirect object:
.- Let me remind you that the meeting is at three.
can mean discuss, but in everyday talk it usually means argue:
.- We argued about money..- We need to discuss this.
Colegio, pariente, campo: the nouns
Four nouns from home and school, and what each one really is:
a school
a university
the countryside
a signature
| False friend | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
. | My daughter goes to school. | |
. | He's a distant relative. | |
. | We live in the country. | |
. | My favourite subject is history. |
Your parents are your ; a is any relative.
En absoluto, últimamente, gracioso
Three that reverse or twist what you meant:
| False friend | Spanish | English |
|---|---|---|
¿ ? . | Do you mind? Not at all. | |
. | I' been sleeping badly lately. | |
. | Your brother is very funny. |
answers no. To say absolutely in the sense of yes, of course:
¿? .- Are you coming? Absolutely.
Mistakes English speakers make
Each word in the middle column is real Spanish. It just says something else:
| To say | Not | But |
|---|---|---|
| I record it | | |
| he pretended | | |
| I support you | | |
| attend a wedding | | |
| my parents | | |
| absolutely (yes) | |
What to do next
- Make a two-column list: the false friend, and the word you wanted.
- Do the drill below.
- Back to false friends, part 1 for
, actual and.