Ch 41 · Lesson 17

Thanks, and a polite no

, , , , a ; and how to soften a refusal: , ...; no; , ...

The short version

Soften a no before you say it

, .

I'm sorry, but I can't today.
Why?

A bare no is correct but cold. Open with , ..., ... or , ..., and the refusal itself can stay short.

Thanking and replying

Thanks scale up, and each has a ready reply:

SpanishEnglish
thanks
thank you very much
thanks a million
you' welcome
don't mention it
thank you (to a friend)
of course, it's the least I could do

and turn the thanks back: "no, thank YOU".

Softening a no

A flat no is correct and chilly. Signal the no first, so it does not sting:

OpenerSpanishEnglish
I'm sorry , .I'm sorry, but I can't today.
I'm afraid .I'm afraid not.
I'd love to , .I'd love to, but I have to work.
I wish I could , .I wish I could, but I can't.

The opener does the work, so the no itself can stay short.

Going further: The politeness ladder at a glance and the rest of the guide, when you want them. This lesson does not need them.

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